YES, it is totally normal! Frankly, with the way kids want to grow up so fast now-a-days, it's quite admirable that you haven't! You probably don't want to hear this, but 13 is still just a child. You have plenty of time for that. Don't rush growing up. You have the rest of your life to be an adult. I bet your friends will regret trying to grow up so fast one day. Don't follow what they do. Always be yourself and if it doesn't feel right, it's not right! There's no way you could know what being in love feels like at your age, nor should you know. One day when you're older, and you find it, you'll know.
2007-03-26 06:33:40
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answered by sassysusie 4
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You're still young. You have lots of time to get a boyfriend. It's normal. I was 14 the first time i was kissed and 16 the first time I had a boyfriend. I'm 24 now and still have never been in love.
2007-03-26 13:31:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes! It's normal. It's great actually! Don't rush into things hun. It just gets too complicated. preserve your innocence and purity for as long as you possibly can. Now-a-days kids fall into the pressures of tv and all that bunch of crap. If there was one thing and one thing only that I could take back...it would be doing things to young.
When you fall in love...it will be the best! You'll feel like your on cloud nine. You can't think about anything or anyone else but the person. It's beautiful. You'll feel it when it's true. Good luck!
2007-03-26 13:37:32
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answered by batchick5 2
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Yes, it's normal. Your friends may be trying harder than you to get boys to like them while you may be hoping a boy will like you and come to you. Sometimes its hard when you aren't forward. Besides, they may not be having the time of their lives anyway. You probably have not had a crush on anyone yet. It also helps if the person that you do kinda like, shows you some attention -even if its a little. If you do run across anyone like that, have someone else let him know that you like him and then soon you'll find out if it will ever go anywhere.
2007-03-26 13:37:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Honey, you're only 13. You're not even in high school yet. Kids shouldn't be allowed to date until they have a car - 16. You can have your little playground boyfriends, but those don't last forever so don't sweat it. I didn't get my first real boyfriend until I was 17, and I'm 19 - so be patient.
And love cannot be described, it's different from person-to-person but don't be decieved, not everyone who says they love you really does, and just because someone loves you, it doesn't mean you have to love them back.
2007-03-26 13:33:13
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not unusual...I didn't get kissed (other than a closed-lipped smooch) until I was 16 and also wasn't allowed to date until then (which is appropriate) so don't worry about it.
At 13 there's not much seriousness in the boyfriend/girlfriend thing anyway...kids are just copying what they see older kids do. You've got plenty of years ahead for kissing and boyfriends 'n stuff. âº
2007-03-26 13:32:02
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answered by . 7
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I have had a couple of boyfriends. I am waiting for the right guy to be in my life before i will kiss him. Don't kiss the first one just because you have a boyfriend. I'm 15.
2007-03-26 13:47:45
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answered by Cassie M 2
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Don't worry too much about it. I was 16 almost 17 before I had my first boyfriend and first kiss. You have your whole life in front of you, and don't worry about what your friends are doing. Love will come in its own time. Most of the time it's not the time we want, but waiting for it makes it that much sweeter in the end.
2007-03-26 13:32:56
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answered by wonder woman 2
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Being without bf now or later does not mean that you lack anything ... may be friends have lots around them who are fake but when love strikes your heart you will soon appreciate the times you had never knew more in the past.
It is all about the right timing, the quality not the quantity.
2007-03-26 13:31:27
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answered by Sara007 5
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It's normal, even desirable to not have a boyfriend at 13. Don't let your friends pressure you. You'll be in college while they're stuck with babies and suing their baby daddys for child support.
As for what it feels like to be in love, I wouldn't know, never been in love.
2007-03-26 13:37:48
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answered by Subconsciousless 7
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