It seems like everytime I like a guy, he just wants me for sex and treats me like dirt. But the guys who are very last on my list are always the ones who approach me and call me all the time, and want to spend time with me (and have sex, also, but have a relationship). Am I just cursed? I don't think I am a bad looking girl. In fact, the guys that I do like always compliment me and tell me that I'm attractive to them, (or maybe its just lines to butter me up), but nevertheless, I never get the guys that I like. The ones that approach me aren't even normal looking. they are always lame and ugly and just plain boring and I'm sick of it! what can I do to find the man of my dreams and keep him- at least beyond the sheets?
2007-03-26 06:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're young, like as in high school age, there's a slim chance you'll find the man of your dreams. You need time to blossom into the beautiful person you are destined to be. High school is a great time of learning and socialization. Who says you have to have a guy "on your list" to be satisfied. Even if you're in your early 20's you still have some growth going on, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, etc. Just let go of this need and embrace yourself for who you are and what you have to contribute to the world. You will attract loving relationships when you love yourself first!
2007-03-26 06:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to keep being yourself and keep your standards high. Eventually, you will meet a guy who wants to be with you and who you want to be with. I would definitly guess that if the guys who just want to have sex with you are telling you that you are good looking that they are just "buttering you up." You probably are beautiful but I doubt that they are telling you out of the goodness of their hearts. If you don't like the other guys then you shouldn't settle for them. You also shouldn't settle for a life with the guys who treat you badly. Just keep being yourself. You should realize that just like you have standards the guys that you like do to. Maybe they don't like you the way that you don't like the guys who do like you. It's their preference. Of course we always want the best for ourselves. Alot of people call this reaching out of your league. When you are dealing with people based on looks alone it is easy to reject someone or be rejected because you aren't in their league physically. I think that it would be interesting for us to have a conversation. You should email me.
2007-03-26 06:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I cant get the women I want. I am actually pretty cute but I just cant get the women I want. It is really is a curse. But what people have told me is just be your self and just have patience and dont want it so much, it will come. Good Luck
2007-03-26 06:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by sirloin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe be a little more open to the beauty of their hearts instead of their faces. I am not telling you to date a gruesome monstrosity, but maybe, just maybe you could fall in love with someone who is just average...over time they become more and more beautiful.
Good luck
2007-03-26 06:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is not real for all situations. adult adult males do cheat with prettier and youthful women in certainty, what you're seeing is a guy's reassurance that he's powerful for somebody else. it rather is his satisfaction to be waiting to entice somebody else. it rather is ordinarily a pastime of understanding that he's warm property, it unquestionably holds real for women besides. 2d it rather is not approximately actual charm, specifically situations it is likewise concerning the spark that they desire. not all adult adult males do yet some discover it lacking. it rather is like a predator chasing after a prey they desire that undertaking. you ought to know that there is relaxing in the charm technique, like attempting to chase after them and that they desire that for the time of your scenario. it rather is not the top that counts however the approach. desire this could grant some perception approximately this. There are another motives to this yet i'm unlikely to show them.
2016-10-19 23:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could u define the meaning of normal looking!maybe i can try to figure out why?
2007-03-26 06:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you search for the man of your life, through all obstacles of life, youll find him: looking for YOU.
2007-03-26 06:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by KatKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a good answer ud atleast have to describe yourself to get a rough idea of what kind of advice to give ya
2007-03-26 06:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r to picky try a different approach.good luck
2007-03-26 06:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not cursed you just havent found the right guy trust me
2007-03-26 06:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋