How wud you say goodbye in the court of law@the sentencing for the murderer.As justice is being served, with a "speech".Including how the child and mother has suffered from this and will live with this for the rest of their lives.Especially the child.
2007-03-26 06:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by pix_array 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Tell him good luck! See you in 25 to life! Enjoy your showers!
2007-03-31 07:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, um, question source is not immediate family of victim or
acknowledged Third Party friend but are an associate to the
inner circle around " ...child and mother ..."; where I'm from a
trial judge limits 'speech' to immediate family and with a few
exceptions to third party involved with deceased such as the business partner, nanny, or another who knew the family well.
Someone like reader is permitted to observe but that is all.
Feel free to stand up and start screeching within courtroom.
It won't influence the judge but the defendant might smile as
reader is dragged away by court officers.
2007-04-02 23:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was the child or the parent, I would not even attend, because even though your going to feel that relief of justice being served, after it is all said and done what will you have left? Not only is the father gone, but the only hope of revenge is now also gone, so you'll have nothing. If either victim watches this, surprisingly will feel more empty than when the father was first lost.
2007-04-01 13:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be careful with his words! I've seen some people cross over the thin line of hate and disgust into threatening. I.E. There's a big difference between "I hope you die in there" and "You'll die in there" even though if he's serving life, it's just stating the obvious. They don't want to be held in contempt and serve time for that themselves!
2007-03-26 14:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by NoFXer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child, or the parent of the child, have to make this decision. All anyone else can do, including yourself, is support their decision. If they want to say they forgive him, that's their call. If they want to say they hope he rots in hell, that's their call, too. If they don't want to be put through it and would prefer not to endure the ordeal, that's up to them.
I honestly don't know what I'd want to do if I were in that position. That's why I'd tell my friends that I'd support any way they felt was right.
2007-03-26 13:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you happen to find someone on these posts that has gone through something as traumatic as that, I don't think anybody can give you any advice. Anybody who tries is an idiot. This is a very personal and tragic event that no one can pretend to understand unless they themselves have been through it.
2007-03-26 13:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto what the first two said.
Tell your friends to handle it in whatever way their hearts lead them, and that you will fully support their decision.
2007-03-26 13:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋