im in love fairytail u only see in movies love i never thought this could happen so i lied about my age because i look almost 20 im really only 15 (hes 20) but i cant lie to him now i love him i fell head over heals for him but he to classy he would never never date me if he new my age so i cant tell the truth so i have to break my own heart and break up with him so what can i say to him to break it of and how can i live with out him with out his arms and his laugh and his kisses?
2007-03-26 06:25:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being extremely mature about this, lying about your age wasn't so mature, but realizing that this has to end, even though it's going to hurt is the right thing to do.
Take him to a place where there are people around, but not overly crowded, maybe a park. Explain to him that what you did was stupid, and very immature, and let him know how sorry you are for lying to him, and tell him your real age.
Prepare yourself for the worst, he likely won't take this well. Tell him that it's over, that you cannot go on with this relationship, and make it a clean break.
Never call, text, email or see him in person, never accept calls from him. You are going to have to move on.
Best of luck, Sweets.
2007-03-26 06:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend, you never base a relationship on lies. Chances are even if you tell him the truth, you probably blew it because there will be a new issue of lack of trust. But if you truly love this guy he deserves to know the truth. Tell him how sorry you are and that if you could take it back you would. Explain to him that what you did was wrong but you thought he wouldn't look twice at you if he knew you were only 15. I hope there has been no sex involved otherwise he has committed and illegal act. That thought might anger him more. Good luck on your dilemma. Hopefully, you learned from this not to lie to your boyfriend ever again,
2007-03-26 06:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 20, and personally I can say that when I was 18 I would go about with 15/16 yr olds, I never got serious with them just messed about but once I hit 19 doing so w as completely out of the question. If you truly "Love" him as you say you need to tell him the truth, of course he couldnt continue to see you if hes a good person. Also if you love him so much dont continue to be with him putting him in legal danger! Im sorry that this is happening I know it hurts to loose someone you care about so much, but in time everyone moves on, and you will have learned a valuable lesson.
2007-03-26 06:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by AlessioItalianoBismillah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Has he told you before that he would never date anyone younger than he is?
um.. I think you should go ahead and tell him the truth before breaking up with him. As everyone knows, the truth usually hurts but... it's a lot better than lying to him, breaking up with him, and not telling him the true reasons why you are deciding it is best to not be together. Is he totally in love with you too? Sometimes you'll never know.. he might even want to still be with you regardless of your age. So go ahead and have a talk with him.. and let him know everything and the truth. You already decieved him by lying about your age. You should now come clean and let everything out. Things might not turn out as bad as you think. Good luck..
2007-03-26 06:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nanx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him, trust him and tell him the truth. If you just break up with him, you'll always wonder if he would have stayed with you. My parents' best friend husband met his wife when he was 23 and she was 15. They are good people with 3 kids and have been married for 40 years now. It would be better to have him say you're too youg than not to at least try.
2007-03-26 06:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by jaferris166 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be honest with this guy, he can go to jail for seeing/messing around with you, it's not funny lying to a guy about your age, you've put him in a very serious situation, legally and morally. At fifteen, you have not reached a high enough level of maturity, to handle a relationship in an adult manner. Your lie is the first clue. To hear you talk, you make it sound like you have a fantasy, period. Get off the soap opera channel, wise up and be honest. So far, I'm counting two reasons why he should dump you, because you think it's okay to lie for one, and secondly, you are willing to let the "man you love so much", go to jail and be registered as a sex offender for the rest of his life, because you lie. People like honesty, you are not liked.
2007-03-26 06:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if he really loves you i don't think he would mind that your 15 but you could get in trouble. I'm sorry you have to break up with him but that's probably the best solution. give your self some time and soon you will begin to forget about him. Now i'm not saying that you will never remember the love you had for him cause that will always stay with you and as much as it hurts you just have to move on and do what's best. good luck.
2007-03-26 06:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by chedderapples 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, jailbait:
1. If you have been intimate with him (ANY kind of sexual activity) you have made him break the law. The kind of law he can go to jail for. Do you think he'd still love you if he ended up getting put away and forever labeled as a sex offender because of your lies? Would you still love him? Would you be willing to have a child with him-if he is a labeled sex offender?
Are you even aware of the gravity of what you have done?
2. If you can't spell 'lying,' 'heels,' 'fairytale,' or 'knew' you're too young to be in love. And, he is too classy for you.
Tell him the truth, break up with him (and leave him alone) and go read a book!
2007-03-26 06:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You lied from the beginning. Quite honestly, your feelings do not now come first here. Stop romanticizing something which obviously has not only been based on a lie, but in most states your actions have resulted in this 'great" guy now being a criminal (if its been intimate). Leave him alone and wait to form another "relationship" when you are more mature and can behave properly in one.
2007-03-26 06:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just start with actually telling him the truth and not assuming he'll reject you. Tell him how you feel about him and your reasons for not telling him in the first place. If he really loves you too, you should be able to work it out.
Just remember, if you have sex with him before you're 16 then he can go to jail like if your parents find out and call the cops - it doesn't matter if you wanted to and even told him out loud "I want to have sex with you" it's still illegal if you're under 16.
and btw - DATING him at 15 is NOT illegal and he CAN'T get in (legal) trouble for it, it's just the sex that's illegal
2007-03-26 06:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋