Okay it's just a question but if someone you were in love with cheated on you, claimed it was a huge mistake, and loved you as well, What would you do? Would you give them another chance or would you call it quits. How would you react to the situation
2007-03-26 06:22:54 · 34 answers · asked by chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that it depends on the relationship, a lot of relationships are just better off ending. But if you honestly are in love and believe that he is in love then give him one more chance. If he does it one more time (which i find it somewhat difficult to think he wont "screw up" again) then dump the jerk because you deserve waaayy better than that girly.
~you know~
2007-03-26 06:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would have a hard time forgiving a person who claims to love me so much if they cheated. It would be obvious to me that they really didnt love me as much as they say. Cheating is a mistake and he probly is kicking himself in the *** now that you may leave him. I would call it quits. Once a cheater always a cheater. I would be pissed off and very angry with this person for being so careless with my heart. Move on. Plus if you did give him another chance think about how youd feel 24/7 is he with a girl is he cheating where is he hes late oh no your mind would be racing with fears and bad thoughts forever.
2007-03-26 06:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a tough question. i mean...it depends on the person and the circumstance and also how well can you trust this person afterwards and the hell both parties will go thru if they stay together because of trust issues...for example the cheater will not be trusted like they were trusted before and the victim will still deep inside be resentful and have a hard time trusting again and it could cause strain in the relationship. see i went thru this....and i had a difficult time trusting that person although i did go back with him but it was hell for him because i was always questioning him after that...see and it made him feel like i did not trust him anymore because i really did but didn't ...so it is your call....
2007-03-26 06:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would be on the receiving end of a massive hissy fit. Infact they would probably have a lovely black eye to explain away. It wouldn't matter to me how much they said they loved me and what a mistake it was. If they truely loved me then the "huge mistake" would never have happened in the first place. They would be kicked to the kerb so quickly the naked eye wouldn't see the movement, and they would be quickly followed by their clothes and personal posessions (in pieces or intact would depend on how my temper is when I throw them at him).
Hope it helps :-)
2007-03-26 06:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not take back a cheater. I can get over pretty much anything if I really love someone, but cheating is the one thing that ends the deal. I wouldn't want to spend all the time and effort and stress getting over it when they were the one who messed up.
2007-03-26 06:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by exaltedchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be angry but if i loved them i would give them another chance because everyone is human and everyone makes mistakes but if they say and was a mistake and they really love you then i would give them another chance to prove it and then if it happened again then i would call it quits. I know from experience because my g/f cheated on me four times like 9 months ago and i love her ver ymuch so i stayed with her and she has been faithful ever since
2007-03-26 06:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by William P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it quits because he will definitely do it again since you let him off the hook the first time. Women are throwing themselves at men and men are catching them because they can. If you want to give him another chance, do it but I highly don't recommend it. Once a cheater, always a cheater especially if he can get away with it.
2007-03-26 06:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a strong believer in second chances. everyone deserves a second chance. if i was to mess up then i would want a second chance. if they wanted to be with you thats showing you hey they fell bad they told me and i wanna be with you. if you feel that you have no more to offer an you just dont think you can ever forgive them. yes call it quits. the question to you is will you able to forgive.
2007-03-26 06:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY would i give them a chance. There was a reason that he felt he could ruin your trust in him with another female... If you got back with him, no matter what he says or claims, you could spend your relationship always wondering and questioning where and who he is with.. that is not a healthy relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You don't deserve to be with someone like that either :) Treat yourself to not being desperate in taking that jerk back!
2007-03-26 06:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by BrookieB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it has only happened once, and you believe that they're truly sorry and won't do it again, then go ahead and give them another chance (after an STD screen), people do make mistakes. If it's happened before or happens ever again, then out the door they must go.
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
2007-03-26 06:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋