well there's this guy that i really like and I think of him all the time. Him and I have had sex about 4 times in the past 2 years. We used to work together, but now we don't. He calls me every now and then, but usually when he calls he tells me he is coming over, but then never shows up or even calls to let me know he isn't coming. sometimes he DOES show up, but when he does, all we do is park someplace behind a building or something, have sex, and then he drops me off at home. Last time we had sex was on Feb 23 2007, and he came to pick me up and we parked behind Home Depot and had sex in his car. Then he asked me if I wanted to get a hotel later on, and I said yes. He told me he would call me in an hour, but he never did. So I called him and asked him if he still wanted to go, and he said he'd call me back and he never did. The last time he called me was about 3 weeks ago and said he might come and see me, but he never did. I've been calling him, but no answers.what is up?
2007-03-26 06:20:45 · 21 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definately using you! Stop letting him!
2007-03-26 06:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by BoyLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you that it sounds like he's just using you for sex. you probably like him so you don't wanna think this way. but as an outsider, it looks like he doesn't care much for you from what you describe. if he really likes you and cares for you, he would call to cancel or at least let you know what he's up to. just ignore him next time so he'll get the message. find someone who respects you and love who you are instead of only your wonderful body and good personality!
2007-03-26 06:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you, sorry to say. all you have to do is not have sex with him in his car. he'll do what ever you want until he gets what he wants so next time tell him to get a room before you have sex with him in the car. after you are done stay in the room and invite some friends over for a little get together. the room is paid for so why worry.
2007-03-26 06:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by glue stick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used for nothing but sex.He is showing up when he is not able to get it some place else. If you cannot figure this one out, then who can? Stop calling him and move on. There is a really nice guy out there just waiting to meet you.
2007-03-26 06:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you whats up he's using you as booty call sorry to say but that all he wants from you and you shouldn't satisfy him in doing that! what you need to do is just move on and leave that a hole alone!!!
2007-03-26 06:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but he probably liked you and the sex was good but now its just about the sex he's using you let it go but be a ***** and nexy time he calls play him and ignore him.don't even show-up or meet him let him go the distance to see you and not even meet him.Let him know how it feels."play it right"good luck girl!
2007-03-26 06:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, he is just using you for sex. Next time he calls, tell the jerk to drop dead.
2007-03-26 06:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girldfriend, it sounds like your just another girl to him.
Next time he calls, ditch him and enjoy doing it cause he is using u.
2007-03-26 06:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are just a booty call for him. You really should just cut your relationship with him completely & find someone who will treat you right.
2007-03-26 06:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're his booty call. He doesn't care about you and only calls you to do the dirty and you allow him to. HE calls when he wants and shows up when he wants...Read between the lines..!
2007-03-26 06:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by baebeecakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he is useing you for sex, you could be one of his other girls he got and when his other girl can't satisfy he runs to you. But more than likely he is useing you.
2007-03-26 06:25:11 · answer #11 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋