Ok! My dilemma is... I recently started "Talking" to this girl that I've known for a couple months and I do like her. We share A LOT of the same interest. In a couple months I am going to be moving to SF attending SFSU, so at first I was hesitant about spitting game to her because I would be about an 1hr 1/2 distance away from her... BUT she recently told me she is moving to SF too and attending the same college. Now on the other hand I have my ex who was my first love, but we didn't have too much of a hard break up, and I haven't had a serious relationship since. We've been broken up for and 7 months now, but we still talk as friends. Everytime I talk to her or reminded of her, my feelings start to come back, also for her too (her feelings come back), but I can tell she trys to push them away. Yesterday she told me she still loved me and she wants our plans to work out. But when I move, she will be 2 1/2 hrs away and I feel that I might end up breaking her heart.
2007-03-26 06:18:33 · 4 answers · asked by Blazian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
distance has nothing to do with determining whom you love and who you feel or believe loves you in return.
while distance may affect how much you feel about each other over time, often it merely determines how often you are able to "show" that love in a more proximate, more tangible more, immediate manner.
go "with" your heart and go "for" the heart of the one whom you know completes yours, needs yours.
don't go "for" the heart of someone simply because she's nearer or more available.
2007-03-26 06:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by saberlingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shop on with your heart. yet once you nevertheless want different peoples critiques... i visit wager that for the reason which you have been attracted to J jointly as with H, you weren't enthralled with H on the time. i think of that to return with H could be unfair to her, as you're actually not as happy along with her as you would be able to desire to and in all risk would desire to be. once you're nevertheless attracted to J, then not something has replaced from once you broke up so your dating does not be any diverse this time around. My advice, forget approximately approximately H, locate out if J likes you and if not, pass onto to extra modern-day and bigger women. stable success in regardless of (and whoever) you elect.
2016-11-23 16:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by maiale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart i may be younger than you but, ive had my share of dilemmas i always pray or just find which one makes me happy or just be friends with both.
2007-03-26 06:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by zorro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for the one that is going to your college.
2007-03-26 06:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋