is she playing hard to get?

Question

i was supposed to go out with this girl last friday, and she rescheduled it to saturday night, i called her sat morning and she said that we were going out, and then later in the day called her twice to see what we were gonna do, she didnt pick up and told me the next day that "her mom had her phone" hard to get or just not interested?

Answer 1

You mean you called her 3 times that day and you're suprised she didn't go out with you? Dude, you have a lot to learn.

I'll try to give you a summary.

Girls have absolutely no idea what they want. At least, they have no way to predict what they will want. They know exactly what they feel like doing at the moment and that's all that matters to them. So, forget everything any girl has ever told you about other girls. Do it right now and never listen to them again.

The female half of the species is a product of evolution just like everything else on this planet so they can be understood the same way. You don't see zookeepers asking the animals what they want do you? Of course not, they don't speak the same language. It's the same situation with girls. Girls don't understand the question and guys don't understand the answer. So the way to learn what girls want is to observe them. See what they REALLY respond to.

When you observe the female you will notice they like to spend time with waaaay more guys than they like to ****. 90% of the guys who spend time with an attractive girl are orbiters. They will never sleep with her, she just keeps them around to validate her ego. If you observe animals you will see that the best way to keep them coming back to a particular place or behavior is to reward them randomly.

Just like those old ladies who pump tons of nickels into slot machines hoping that THIS time they'll hit the jackpot, guys hang out around hot chicks hoping some magic will happen. Except for the guys who have figured it all out. Those guys understand how to get girls chasing them.

I'm not going to get into how guys flip the script, there's too much to tell. If you want to know more just google "PUA" and start reading.

Basically, girls are drawn to guys who don't chase after girls. The tricky bit is understanding how that dynamic works. You can't appear to be actively picking up girls even when you are. The way to do it is to be a person who always makes new friends. See, girls don't like guys who are needy because those guys obviously don't have a lot of experience with girls or they wouldn't act needy. The way to never be needy is to always have another option.

Think about it this way, you only called that girl 3 times because you NEEDED to hang out with her. That's bullshit. The odds of her being your soul mate are tiny. If you had scheduled time with 3 different girls for that day then you

Answer 2

we 'boys' can't never understand how women think. sometimes we just have to play hard. you don't be to be needy, calling her every time. she will think that you're desperate. so i suggest that you should wait for her to call u. if she doesn't, then she most likely not interested going out with you. and you should forget about her and move on. there are still many females out there. cheers.

Answer 3

sounds not interested to me i would not call her and see what she does if she calls them MAYBE give her a second chance but if she doesnt than take the hint k

Answer 4

not interested world is full with girls don't waist ur time on her go out and find one who have time for u and puts u first