well i was dating this girl for a while everything was going well then nothing. i couldnt talk to her even contact her. i love her but if she doesnt like me i would rather move on than fight and track her down i dont have a clue were to start anyway. i want to move on but it really hurts and i cant hep checking my mail and hoping shes tried to contact me and explain. my relationships dont last very long and i think im very unlucky. my friends just joke about me dating now cause they never last. im having trouble getting over her because my friends still think im going out with her. i want to get over her but i dont want my friends to laugh at me got any ideas??
2007-03-26 05:59:50 · 16 answers · asked by ciaran e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Greetings!!
Easy-peasy! There are how many females in this world? Not all of them are fit enough to hold a conversation, true, but this is because they've about as much between their ears as any human being has between their toes!
You don't say how long you had been dating this girl, only that you'd been "dating this girl for awhile" and that was that.
If she's given you up in rather a brash way and she don't like you anymore, which you insinuate here, then it's obvious to a guy like me she's found another guy to fill her time with.
I notice you don't mention how old either of you are.
Get yourself ready, forget about her, think of something else, or somebody else. Even if it's Rihanna or Kylie or having sex with Natalie Imbruglia {now there's a thought!!!! ;o)}.
Where did you go last weekend? Was it a good night? Was it a lot of fun? Who did you go with? Did you pull? And I'm not talking pulling on string either!! Think of something else. I see it like this. At the moment this girl, now your ex-girlfriend,
is nothing but trouble and trash at the moment, right? So now you want another fit female to pull and do the 'do' with. Ain't that hard, ya know.
Go on, get ya best jeans on, ya best jacket, ya best shoes, ya best everything, have a shave {no decent girl likes a guy with a filthy beard} and get out with ya mates and have a real hot evening somewhere with 'em.
Forget about that girl you were dating. Forrrrrget her. Get on out and have a fu**ing good night out and make her history.
I wish you the best and hope you pull a tasty female too!
Best wishes,
Russtti {260307}
2007-03-26 06:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Russtti G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry to say dude you should really tell them. When there's something like that, that really hurts there are 2 things you can do. You can laugh or you can cry. Laugh. Laugh when they make jokes about you. That's what I do because my relationships haven't lasted too long either. Anyway, the only way you will completely get over her is to find another girl. I know that seems really hard. "Who else will be better than her?" "I don't know anyone nearly as good!" It's going to hurt until you find somebody else. And don't even try looking. It's not going to work by you looking. You will eventually meet somebody in school or something and you guys will get closer and you'll get over the last girl. It's going to hurt until then. It sucks but there's nothing you can do besides keep an open mind.
2007-03-26 13:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say she had a bottom beard and she refused to shave it. Your mates will understand and you can all laugh at her instead. Seriously though, just try to draw a line under it and don't give up, you know you want a serious relationship and the right gilr will come along, i am sure you have felt this bad before but come through it ok - just remember how strong you are.
2007-03-26 15:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal a broken heart trust me i know. I went out with this cracking girl when i was at school and i loved her so much it hurt then one day she told me she was moving away and i was devistated but in time i got over i.t To be honest i still think about her all the time and would love to see her again but cant find her
2007-03-26 13:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't be so desperate. Relax, and live. Relationships work better if you don't obsess over them.
Act like it doesn't matter to you. Take up a hobby. Then you will find someone, because you no longer care about finding someone. Girls need a guy to be confident, and relaxed, not all nervous and worried about "does she like me?"
Good luck.
2007-03-26 13:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to get over her, you're going to have to admit to yourself and others that you are not in a relationship anymore. Remember that in life, you only want to get into one real relationship and that is with the person that you are going to marry. How many of your friends are in successful relationships? If they laugh at you for the failure of this relationship, you need to ask yourself, are they really true friends? It is not right to laugh at anyone's misfortune.
2007-03-26 13:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shouldn't be caring that much abt your friends, and wht would they say...if u love her.
i think u should try to contact her...wht's wrong with that?!?
if u feel she likes u too, then dnt let it go...
and tell your friends to mind their own business, they should respect your feelings...i dnt think u'll be doing the same as them, if they faced the same situation, just contact her and see where do u stand in this relation.
2007-03-26 13:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are there to give you a hard time about things. life without friends is no life at all. if you really want to get over her, then tell your friends that she is no where to be found and you want them to stop it so you can move on. or if you really want her, then enroll your friends to help you find her. if you really have feelings for her then i think that it would be worth trying to find her. i know that if there was a guy that had feelings for me and i just vanished, i would want him to at least try and contact me.
try asking neighbors or friends of hers on where is might be.
if your friends are true friends then they will help you get over her or find her. true friends are there for you through thick and thin, no matter what.
hope this helps
2007-03-26 13:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by uwmpanther21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends that you broke it off with HER; That you're looking for something else, and then you can hook up with someone who is actually interested in being with you and not look like a fool. When you find a new girl that will help you get over her.
2007-03-26 13:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh... i remember being like this... its terrible for awhile but you will move on and time will heal everything just go back to finding things that make you happy. thats what i did and hey maybe you will find some one new and better
2007-03-26 13:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Matt W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋