ok. i went to the cinema with the guy i´ve had a crush on for the past 4 month and well, we wanted to go in the day and go to a cooffee shop or something like that after. but the only showing was in the evening so i asked him if he wanted to do something after the cinema and he just said oh well only bar are open after 8 so he didnt have anything planed (did that mean he didnt want to or he didnt think i wanted to, oh well to late now) and i just thought if two days later would be too soon to ask him if he wanted to go and get that coffee in the week somethime. or should i just let it go cause he doesnt like me (pls dont say u dont know enough about the situation and if u want to know more than u can just read my other questions.)
im really confused pls help.
thanx
2007-03-26 05:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by Finn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need to get worried. He is already going out with you to the movies, so it sounds like things are off to a good start.
Here's what you do. Go find someplace near the theater that is open after 8 that serves good coffee. Preferably, a diner that offers free refills on coffee, and doesn't mind if you just want coffee. Usually, the best place is Denny's, but I don't know where you live, so you may have to look around.
Once you've found the place, I'd suggest waiting to tell him about it. This allows you and him to have an out if things don't go well, or if you're just tired and want to call it an evening. However, if both of you want the night to continue, it let's you have a place to just talk.
What I don't want you to do is worry about him rejecting you. It's still too premature to start thinking that he doesn't like you. There will be plenty of time to wonder if he likes you after the date is done. Take things one step at a time. Don't allow little things to distract you or make you doubt yourself. You're just a bit nervous, but it will pass. You'll be fine.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
2007-03-26 07:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by stedh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule of 3-You make an effort 3 times and if he doesn't reciprocate, you let it go. It looks like you tried once, asking him if he wanted to go to the movie, so I think it would be fine if you asked him to go for coffee (that would be #2). Good luck!
2007-03-26 06:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by msannawilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him, ask him to coffee. give him another chance.
2007-03-26 06:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋