2007-03-26 05:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by Leah V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For me it will be the best favour i did for the sake of her.I hope she rememebers that for her lifetime!Anyway it is my character not to accept preused tissues or boyfriends of my girlfriends .it is unhygenic!
2007-03-26 06:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, never date someone's old boyfriend or even crush if you care about the friendship at all. Even if it's been years, it will most likely not make a difference. Even if the girl says it's okay and that she's totally over him. There will always be history between them and some trace of possessiveness. There are plenty of guys out there. Meet someone else that isn't connected to a friend. Stay loyal to your girls!! Guys do this too. If they are truly good guys they would never go after a friend's old gf, even if they were really attracted to her. I know because I've been in this situation.
Friends are way more important!
2007-03-26 13:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most definitely the right thing if you value your friendship. Even if she is the one that dumped him, break-ups are always hard and your job right now is to support your friend. I'm sure that if you dated him she would have some resentment towards you, so why risk it
2007-03-26 13:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by tamekia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why she dumped him and if she still has feelings for him. But yeah, generally speaking, an ex of a friend is off limits unless she expressly tells you it would be okay.
2007-03-26 13:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any details, I would say it was the right thing to do.
Your friend needs a friend right now - and by not doing something that may hurt her feelings makes you a very good friend!
2007-03-26 13:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the "friend code", saying no right away is the way to go. However, if you like the guy and she doesn't have a problem with it, then go for it!
2007-03-26 13:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long it's been and whether or not you really like him.
usually, i'd say you did the right thing by saying no, but i have a friend who went out w/ a guy who broke up w/ me, and now they're living together. they're good for each other; much better than he would be with me. but if you really like him, she should understand and support your feelings.
2007-03-26 13:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately. You would break the friendship silent code if you said yes.
2007-03-26 13:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably using u as a rebound but if you're interested you should definitely talk to her and see what she's thinking.
2007-03-26 13:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely. never dating a friend's ex is just one of those unsaid rules. you made a very good decision. i know too many girls who just wouldn't care and go after their friends' exes. thank you for being one of the good girls! =]
2007-03-26 13:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋