not him who she has cheated with?

Question

We, my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and last year August she screwed up while drunk with so called friend of mine Dad was informed and since could care if she was dead or alive,since that incident she has informed me that she if preg. Birth date is in April which puts getting preg. in July...Paternity tests are pretty much the first priority on my lists but still the question remains of how to tell Dad????

Answer 1

Sorry but the DNA test is the only thing that is going to put your mind at ease. Here is a site you can order one from to have it ready. Pretty cheap also. http://www.paternityexperts.com/?OVRAW=Cheap%20Dna%20tests&OVKEY=cheap%20dna%20test&OVMTC=standard

Answer 2

Do you know the date of her last period or the actual due date of the baby. If you do we can help you break it down as to when she "likely" conceived. There are still no guarantees, but it could help give you a much better idea. Let us know.

Here is an example. I am due April 9th, count back 40 weeks and my last period was July 3rd. I probably conceived somewhere between July 17th through the 22nd. Because a womans typical fertile period is 14-19 days after her period.
Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Since babies can be born very late and very early just as easily as on time... get a Paternity test ASAP. It's your ONLY way of truly getting peace.

Just remember - children are a gift, wanted or not. If her child is yours - don't blow this great blessing. Relish it.

Peace.

Answer 4

well just be honest with him, but she could get an amino done for the paternity test to find out first if it's yours or not then you can go from there on telling him if it is your child

Answer 5

How old are ya'll? U need to be old enough to be able to have this discussion with "Dad" be a man about it!!!!!!!!!!