2007-03-26 05:50:05 · 32 answers · asked by ju_ju_babi07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a paternity test done after the child is born (if you are a guy who has been cheated on). If you are a woman, cut him loose. Who needs that?
2007-03-26 05:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would request a paternity test. How said, I am so sorry to hear this has happened to you. Have you two determined how far along she is, maybe you can try to figure out if there is a chance that she conceived before she cheated. If she tries to say it's your and once the baby is born she will then try colecting on support, but if you let the friend of the court know it may not be yours, a perternity test will be reguired, sometimes covered by the friend of the court. Good luck.
2007-03-26 05:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not married, just leave her. You don't want a girl that has cheated on you, as she will do it again. She has already shown you that she doesn't respect you or the relationship, so you don't owe her a thing.
Move on, there are plenty of good girls out there.
As for the child, you need to wait until it's born. If she claims that you are the father, you need to immediately have a paternity test done. Do not take her word for it, she is a proven liar.
Next time use a condom.
2007-03-26 05:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, whether she is pregnant by him or not, is not the issue. The question is do you love him enough to forgive him, and is he worthy of that forgiveness? Can you get past the fact that he cheated? Will he cheat on you again or will he continue? If you love him and can forgive him and if you feel he will never stray again, or if you can accept that he may in the future and that is ok with you, then stay with him. If being cheated on is unforgivable, then leave him.....regardless of how you feel about him. That is a wound that will continue to fester. Either way, be true to yourself. All the best to you in the future.
2007-03-26 06:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by moonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him duuh!!!!
if he didnt wrap it up>>>>> even worse.
who knows how many people he cheated with and didnt wrap it up. that is gross, especially with the way things are these days! i am sorry that your man did this.
and i hope that you move on and wish you the best of luck.
he is dead beat LEAVE HIM!**
he is a LOSER. he cheated. he is a cheater and how can you forgive someone who did not wrap it up and might have another woman pregnant? now she HAS to be apart of his life.
I JUST RE READ YOUR QUESTION, THIS IS ABOUT A GIRL CHEATING AND THE BABY MIGHT BE HIS OR YOURS! -right?
well same thing she didnt use protection she is dirty. leave her and make sure to take a paternity test. this happened to my brother and that b**ch knew it wasnt his but that other guy was dead beat so she told my brother it was his. my brother didnt even know she cheated, but the baby came and had no features of my bro. so yeah, take a paternity test and leave her. if the baby is yours i hope you still move on. she cheated and didnt use a condom. she is dirty and does not love you cause she would not have cheated.
2007-03-26 05:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jdez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST GET A DNA TEST THENdo u love her? if u realy love her understand she fuckeed up but so does every one ellese love does and will concer all. if not just go (make sure if she is a bad mom the baby will be ok even if its not urs its still another human life)and walk away knowing u have done the very best u could
2007-03-26 06:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him, no matter how much you love him. If he has done this, then he is capable of doing it again. Could you really stay with someone who has a child by a tart?? He couldn't have really had any true feelings for you if he has cheated. Good luck
2007-03-26 05:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure some people are going to tell you to stick through it. I am going to tell you differant and I will explain, first of all if she is in fact questioning wheather or not the kid is his, that means she did not use protection. Which means she doesn't even respect herself enough to protect herself from disease. That would be grounds for a bye bye from me. Unless of course you don't mind risking yourself for HIV. Secondly, do you want to put your through the stress of wondering. If it isn't I still say leave, this is your flag to get the hell out of the relationship. Maybe not this time but who is to say what he does next time. Run, run, run!!!!!! Good luck to you hun!
2007-03-26 09:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have a DNA test done to determine that you are not the dad, and then you need to leave. if she has this baby while she is with you, you could be legally responsible for the child even though it is not yours, and make sure your name is not put on the birth certificate. I have a friend paying for two kids that are not his, but because he lived with them and they called him dad, when they split up he was order by the court to pay child support for both the kids Even though he did a DNA test and it proved beyond a shadow of a doubt he was not their paternal father. you have to protect yourself!!
2007-03-26 05:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this really depends on how much you love this woman. Sometimes if you love a person it's not that easy to give up on that love. If she is worth it stay with her and help her raise the baby. If not let the other party involved deal with the drama.
2007-03-26 05:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by biblegurl79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋