when it comes to dealing with your family. My sisters are so selfish and I have had it. I asked my sister to fly out and visit all expenses paid, and she still finds excuses not to come. Should I even bother anymore. I love my sisters but they always have some stupid "guy: interfering with their lives. I guess I am just fed up with their immaturity. Anyone have any insight. ?????
2007-03-26 05:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well dealing with family can be tough all you gotta do is remember that you tryed and if she don't want to come it's her loss at least you were willing to make an effort and offering all expenses paid was great of you, she should of jumped at the offer, Sorry
2007-03-26 05:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess we all have immaturity sometime in our lives. it must be hard for you, but that's the reason we are sisters, to help them when ever they realize that we need each other. I hope that you won't let this kind of stuff interfere with all the good memories you girls had together. Is just a matter of time. Keep sharing your love and if nothing changes it wont be left on you.
2007-03-26 05:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had a sister but after watching my mother and her two sisters interact, I didn't miss it. At 67 my mother and her younger sister still don't get along. I finally convinced my mother that expecting her sister to change was futile. They focus on things they have in common and limit the amount of time they speak. It is too stressful for the rest of the family to have them bicker. Who needs the negativity?
Don't expect your siblings to change. Hopefully they will grow up. I wouldn't give up on them. Just keep the lines of communication open. I send cards on every occasion to relatives I have trouble speaking with just so they know; I'm family and I'm here.
2007-03-26 05:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by alikilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sisters and i don't have relationships anymore, either....i'd really like to, but we have grown apart.
you can't force someone else to visit you.. and there must be a reason your sister(s) won't visit. they have the right to have their "stupid guy" and other relationships outside the family. sometimes outside relationships are healthier anyway.
maybe your sisters think you are immature? have you asked them if they have issues with you? or if you've done something to offend them? or do you assume THEY are the one with the problem?
perhaps you might consider asking.
otherwise, take care of YOU... focus on your life and other things....
2007-03-26 06:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not where you are at and still aren't mature enough to realiize, hey a free trip!!!!!!
They are living their lives through the men in their life and putting everything else on hold.
This shows the insecurity and immaturity in them. Nothing you can do about that.....
I would let it go for now.
Even if you went home for a visit , they probably wouldn't have time for you.
They have the Hor...mones... happening bud.
Save your money, it is not appreciated at this point and take a nice trip somewhere warm and enjoy yourself.....
2007-03-26 05:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. Family is important, maybe your sisters are just a bit immature right now. Leave it be for awhile and see if they reach out to you, if not, then you need to call them and tell them how you feel. Good luck.
2007-03-26 05:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family first. Don't give it up and maintain good relation with your sisters. If they can't visit you for any reason then you must visit them. Don't allow any one to interfere in between ant don't allow any one to spoil your relations.
2007-03-26 05:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by prince_y2kkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up personly sisters r the best thing in the world i love my sissters maby u should fly down there im sure they or she would love a viset
2007-03-26 05:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever the mens money is gone and they stop paying attention to her and she becomes ill who will she call? No one really wants to take care of a ill person.This is when she will need YOU!
2007-03-26 06:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about visiting them instead? It would probably be cheaper for you in the long run.
2007-03-26 06:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋