how do u get over being severely hearbroken multiple times in a row? nothing ever gets better. i always end up getting hurt. my ex told me he loved me with all his heart, then dumped me cause i wasnt giving him "p*ssy" but there is this other guy who i havent seen for 7 monthes that i loved but hes going out with another girl and i feel VERY down...
2007-03-26 05:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are a like in some way. I am a man but I do get heart broke a lot, multiple times just like you. I come to find that its instant gratification. You want to be loved so bad and you probably had a lot of things come easly in life. And sometimes you want love to come just as easy, it wont happen. I loved this girl but, she cheated on my best friend. It tore me apart. You just have to chill for a while and let things happen. protect your heart as well as your body. Good Luck
2007-03-26 05:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by sirloin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the sources. Why are you choosing these types of guys? If you only want to be with men who are after p*ssy then you have no cause to feel heartbroken when they show their true colors. Seek out better quality men... someone who will cherish you for the person you are, not what's under your skirt.
2007-03-26 12:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm, the reason for being heartbroken multiple times in a row, is probably something YOU are doing. Face It, only you can put yourself out there. everyone you are choosing to "be with" are doing the same thing they always do, but you are the one picking them out of anyone million ppl in the world, and only you are putting so much of your heart and feeling s into these so called "relationships". sorry for the truth, sometimes ppl can be so cruel to your heart. and they never look back as you are broken hearted and crying.
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2007-03-26 12:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't fix your personal problems before getting a new love interest you're going to get the same results.
Take time off from guys for awhile, maybe a year and either get counseling or work on whatever makes you look for guys that will hurt you.
Sorry to say....but the problem is yours to fix.
2007-03-26 12:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME is the only thing that heals a broken heart. I know it sounds cliche', but as time goes on your heart will begin to hurt less. I would not stress to bad about those rotten apples, they were not the guy for you. When he comes along, you will know it. I have been through many bad relationships myself, but you can't give up. You have to stay optimistic and PRAYFUL. Trust me God knows best. When its time, your Mister Right will come!!
2007-03-26 12:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by tamekia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it seems things happen for a reason and maybe that reason is because you just havent found the right person or the people who meet you dont fully appreciate you.
Bear with it, you will find someone.
2007-03-26 12:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find the right guy when the time is right.. i know it's sound kinda cheesy but it's true...maybe you could do some thinking and find out what your really looking for in life and stop wasting your time with guys that you know from the start that there not good for you. guy that will leave you cause your not giving them "p*ussy" are not worth much to me. there a lots of nicer guy in this world and you'll find the one that right for you when you'll stop looking .so start focusing on yourself, love yourself and the rest will come
good luck :)
2007-03-26 12:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by marcnancy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stick to your rules, and don't give it away. You sound like you want to be love so desperately, that you fall too easily. Time to grow up a little and realise that you can't always get what you want. Get tougher. Don't let every broken romance devestate you like that. Maybe you need to stay away from guys for a while till you get it together. ..
2007-03-26 12:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want to be loved by anyone, if I were u I should make a list and put like evrything u want a guy, u take any kind of guy and u love them to easily. Thats not good. U got to know what u want and what u don't want in a guy
2007-03-26 12:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Shy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only thing. Eventually you'll find someone else who you'll want to be with and who will want to be with you.
It sounds like you are young so just struggle through this and things are likely to get better.
2007-03-26 12:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by forestpirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋