I have an ex girlfriend who lied and cheated on me twice. I broke up with her about 2 months ago. She's now with someone different than who she cheated on me with. I'm sure she has about 3-4 boyfriends at a time and lies to them all. Anyway, this girl seems like the most sincere, honest person you would ever meet in your life. She always said how she wanted me to go to church with her to learn about the Lord. None of my family or friends could believe she would cheat on me. She almost seemed like an Angel to me while we were together for 3 1/2 years. I never cheated on her and always treated her like gold. My question is could she be some type of Disciple from hell? or something of Satan's doing? Satan is said to be the father of lies and sometimes it seems like my ex was the sweetest angel who preached going to church but lied to me constantly.
2007-03-26 05:40:49 · 23 answers · asked by JC 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
sounds like a real gem! sorry to hear about her. JC, there is someone out there who is perfect for you.
2007-03-26 05:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by super Bobo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, good grief. This has to be the most extreme example of demonizing one's ex I've ever seen.
No, she's not a disciple from Hell. She's just a person who may have treated you badly, but I'm sure, just like virtually every other person who's ever been treated badly by a girl/boyfriend, you'll get over it.
2007-03-26 12:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just the typical hypocrite. She acknowledges the truth, the words on the page, but her heart is deceitful to herself and others. Real people that love God and the truth are totally sincere and honest with themselves and God. Don't get angry, just learn from people like this. They're everywhere, always trying to live a lie and keep a step or two ahead of truth. But eventually, the bills come due and she will have to face herself, if she can.
2007-03-26 12:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did she cheat on you twice? Shouldn't the first time been enough to say ok this is not working out? If she has 3-4 boyfriends it doesn't sound like she is a Disciple from hell but rather a slut.
2007-03-26 12:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by luvv2rock 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, just a human who evidently follows her hormones over her head. From your brief description I'd guess that she's a kind of social chameleon...probably because she had to be to get along wherever it was she was raised.
Don't waste any more negative emotion on her...and demonizing her like you just did is a huge wave of negative emotion. Try to put her aside and move on. Find someone else in your church.
Wow...advice like that coming from an atheist. I must be getting sentimental in my old age...
2007-03-26 12:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Scott M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appearances can be deceiving. Just because someone acts all nice doesn't mean they actually are.
There is a word for people that preach high morals and then fail to live up to their own standards. I'm trying to remember it.
Oh yeah. She's a hypocritical b*tch
2007-03-26 12:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she just knows how to play the game and can probably mold into being anyone's dream girl. These people really don't have their own identity they are too busy trying to be what everyone else wants them to be. Feel sorry for her- but stay away. She is lost and doesn't really know who she is. Hopefully someday she will find herself. It usually takes a pretty good case of being humbled but the best thing to do is pray that she finds her way.
2007-03-26 12:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by momof2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think she has some problems, but I dont think she is a disciple from Hell. She probably doesnt follow all the things people say to follow at church.
2007-03-26 12:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you answered your own question. Just because someone goes to church and talks about Jesus does not make them a Christian. We are warned that there are wolves in sheeps clothing who speak soothing words but they seek to destroy. Some people are consciously evil, others unconsciously, but the result is the same.
Now, it is time for you to forgive her and move on. This is not for her - but for you - to recieve healing from God. We are commanded to forgive so our prayers will not be hindered. AS long as you harbor resentment towards her, you have given her power over you.
2007-03-26 12:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she have raven hair and ruby lips?
sparks fly from her finger tips
Echoed voices in the night
she's a restless spirit on an endless flight
wooo hooo witchy woman, see how high she flies
woo hoo witchy woman she got the moon in her eye
2007-03-26 12:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but people like your ex girlfriend do more damage to the church then anything....we all lie, and we all have fallen short at times...but it seems like this gal is living a life of lies...unrepenting...non believers see that and use that as their justification not to go to church......in other words...maybe this girl thinks she loves Jesus, and somehow has justified to herself her lifestyle, but she is doing satans work...
2007-03-26 12:46:18 · answer #11 · answered by TNT 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋