My boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 weeks, i'm 15 he's 16, we went out to a party on saturday and he was a bit full on with kissing but nothing else. but i heard him talking to a freind and he was askin if we had sex. he said no and he mate said that was unlike him. do you think he's had sex? it sounds like it to me, should i just ask him? because i dont wanna have sex for a long time! i'm not 16 until july.
2007-03-26 05:36:42 · 7 answers · asked by kelly w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First I want to say GOOD FOR YOU! Waiting is the right way to go until you find that special person. You know that you won't get pregnant, STDs or be called a "s.lut"
2nd, I think that you should just ask him. Either way, tell him that you want to wait until the right time. Tell him that it is your own policy and if he doesn't accept it then hes not accepting you. Plain and simple.
2007-03-26 05:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...what does it really matter Kelly...as long as you know where YOU stand on these issues of sex with this guy hun...and it sounds like you kinda sorta do anyways! I'd say hold out for right now Kelly...but then I think sex at 15 & 16 is gonna be more about being experimental then having really good sex with him anyways. Talk and a discussion about protection safety and pregnancy issues need to be discussed probably more then anything else darling....wouldn't you agree?
2007-03-26 05:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BECAUSE YOU ASK HIM SOMETHING DOESN'T MEAN HE GOING TO TELL THE TRUTH. ANYWAY IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THIS GUY HAD SEX BEFORE....WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO HAVE SEX. YOU TWO HAVE ONLY BEEN GOING OUT FOR TWO WEEKS....I THINK IT'S TOO SOON TO BE HAVING A SEX TALK. HOWEVER IF THAT IS A TALK YOU FEEL YOU ARE ALREADY TO HAVE SO SOON, THEN YOU SHOULD. IF YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE THIS TALK BE UP FRONT ABOUT IT . ASK HIM ALL THE QUESTIONS YOU WANT TO ASK HIM AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO HAVE SEX. IF HE DOESN'T TAKE IT WELL AND WHATS TO BREAK UP... THEN LOOK AT IT AS YOU JUST SAVED YOURSELF MONTHS HIM PESSURING TO HAVE SEX. GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-26 05:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell with young guys like that. A lot of times boys at his age lie about their sex lives because they think it's cool or something. I don't think it's wrong that you ask him and I definitely don't think it's wrong if you tell him you want to wait. Your first time...and any time after should be with someone you care for.
2007-03-26 05:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, because it was a mate he may have just been saying that he has had sex to impress his mates.
Ask him, I am sure he wouldnt mind telling you if he had.
2007-03-26 06:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sound like he had sex before... just ask him if he has... its ok.. but ur not ready for sex so if he thinks ur going to give it up he has another thing comming.lol... lets see how much he likes u then.... that will prove if he likes you for you or for more experience...
2007-03-26 05:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O hon, don't give it to him either. You are both very young!
2007-03-26 05:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋