PLEASE HELP ME - I NEED YOUR HELP... SO DESPERATLEY...
and thankyou for hearing me out...
I am a boy, I am only young and I have a best friend, who I have come to love...
He is a little younger than me, and I think he loves me too.
Recently I did something really stupid and word got out that I fancy him, I denied everything to everyone. He even asked my if I was gay, when we were both alone - and I got nervous and told him I am completley straight.
We have had many moments in the past where we have been getting close to each other - and everytime we do it is sooo obvious that we love each other. But I'm soo scared to ask him if he likes me. He is my best friend and all I want to do is to see him, I wouldnt want to live if were seperated.
He is the first thing I think about when I wake, and the last thing I think of when I am about to sleep. I dream about me and him together sharing our love. I feel so nervous.
Everyone else is onto us, But I need him, so badly...
2007-03-26 05:36:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is love whether it is gay or straight. If you feel so strongly about your friend, then you have to tell him. Who cares what they say. Live your life the way you want...
2007-03-26 05:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe honey..............I wish I could answer the question with a help full answer but this is a toughie!!!!
Firstly, this is ur 1st love & its always gonna hurt but given the situation ur in makes it alittle harder....I suggest mabye not confessing all to this lad, I dont think it will help!
He may not feel the same & it would hurt u more if u were rejected.....sometimes u have 2 keep things 2 urself 2 save ur own heart!
Secondley, wot do u want more a friend or a boyfriend...I know that sounds harsh but I lost a best friend trhough a relationship that didnt work out ( at 28!!) so being so young this relationship proberly wouldnt work anyway!!!
I know that im proberly not helpin much but I hope that woteva happens u find ur happiness in life!!!!
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2007-03-26 05:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by bakebeanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him, you cant keep loving him but not being able to express it properly.
From what you said it is obvious he feels the same way about you so put everyone else out of your mind and just tell him how you feel.
Everyone deserves to be with the person they love, and you are no different so go for it babe.
Good luck xxx
2007-03-26 06:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a risk here, admitting something like this could ruin your friendship, after you told him that lie that you were straight. how about asking him if hes gay without him thinking you like him, play a game, like truth of dare but do it naturally, dont just walk up to him and say " lets play truth of dare, me first, are you gay?!?!" do it naturally, when your hanging out and your board, suggest a game of truth or dare with your friends around as well so its not so obviously.
or if not that, look out for obvious hints hes gay and then ask him innocently. like a general wondering.
2007-03-26 05:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so sweet lol im only young too, im 16. but that sounds so romantic (even if you are for lack of a better word, "gay"<<< no offence meant there at all)
i reckon you should be honest and ask how he feels
you'll spend the rest of your life regretting never asking.
good luck okay xx
2007-03-26 05:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by xx_mcr16_xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened on Hollyoaks it might just be a crush, like you said your only young and the two can be mistaken sometimes
2007-03-26 11:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Gemma D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he is gay? you have to know because you would look stupid if he is straight and you tell him.really make things awkward! If he definately is gay, then you know that theres a chance that he likes you and no harm done if you tell him.
2007-03-30 01:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith me I comprehend what you're dealing with "/ their became this woman nd it waz all goin large yet then I.D.ok what hppned we lost it nd we've been 2getha for an exceptionally long volume of time nd we juzt by using all of it away so now she's with yet another guy 2 yearz older nd wen I see them makeing out in my head am thinkin..."damn dat ought to've been me" nd so yea I nonetheless won't have the capacity to recover from it yet am doin greater advantageous ...the trick iz 2 flow on and discover yet another "mate" nd attempt 2 stay away from haveing 2 tak along with your ex. additionally if u rlly want him on your existence Y dnt u attempt askin him 2 B your "brother" sorta like a individual dats constantly their 4 you wen you like it. =] wish i've got helped...
2016-10-01 12:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, u can NOT live ur life by the way OTHERS want u to... its UR life and if U love this boy u go for it....love can beat all evil people can throw out at u.....just talk to him. dont let this go....i ruined my lif ebecuz PEOPLE told me i was wrong...well PEOPLE aint the ones who r in love, who wake up wanting this person who spend every free moment thinkin about them in their minds and PEOPLE dont need to be the one to run ur life....if u love this boy u tell him...DONT let this go, people will tell u that u r wrong on here but they obviously dont kno wat love is!!!!! good luck and dont let the world run ur life!!!
2007-03-26 05:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww! just follow ur heart. ignore all the stupid prejudice comments
2007-03-26 05:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by snails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋