My bestfriend ( and my crush of 5 yrs.) came with me to visit my mom in arizona, we got there late and everyone went to sleep except us...he said come on lets go outside so i said okay them we went outside and he pulled his clothes off...to get into the pool, except his boxers and said come in i sat on the side and said no way...then he pulled me in. He carried me to the deep end and just held me while we looked at the stars...it was like 3 in the morning. We both saw a shooting star and he told me to make a wish, i did and then we went and sat on the steps and he asked what i wished for and then i said i wouldn't tell cuz then it would not come true...he said "what if the only way to make it come true was by telling someone?"...i just kind of looked at him and he smiled and then kissed me...and he whispered in my ear..."i already know...you don't have to say it." it was the most perfect first kiss ever... He's my bestfriend, does he love me to, or just leading me on?
2007-03-26 05:24:14 · 24 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the 6 years we have been Best friends nither of us have had a Boyfriend or Girlfriend...have we been together all along and i am just to stupid to realize it? i would ask him but i feel silly if we have been...
2007-03-26 05:26:00 · update #1
I seriously wouldn't feel stupid about that. Ha, who cares? Now that it happened, don't think about the labels you should or shouldn't have given to your relationship. Just enjoy it! ;)
Damn, that's a beautiful story, and that's what you should care about. Let it go on naturally.
I wish you all the best!
2007-03-26 05:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by woffa87 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aawww! That's the sweetest thing ever! I wouldn't say you're stupid at all. I think that you two are already where you want to be, but maybe the issue of putting a girl/boyfriend label on you two might make things go another direction. I wouldn't say he's leading you on at all either. It seems to me that the both of you have been quite close for a long time. I'm not sure how old you two are, but maybe you should ask him what he has in mind for the future. It's obvious the way the two of you feel. Get it out in the open, but never move any faster than you have to. Sounds like a great start for a great relationship! Good Luck!
2007-03-26 12:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Punkie Brewster 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rarely will you find or hear another story like this one. Most humans will say things that are rare are the most beautiful. Others will agree that you should endeavor for once in a lifetime opportunities. No matter what your belief is, in this case, you will hopefully agree that this was truly amazing.
Leading you on? He's your best friend - or at least according to you - why would you believe he is trying to hurt you? Honestly, give the man due credit. You should hopefully know your best friend better than that I would think. I'm sure you wouldn't befriend him and continue the amity if you didn't value him.
Love I wouldn't jump to so quickly. Love as a friend, maybe. However, love through sexual response is usually common through some amazing feat or event, especially one like this. But honestly, you cannot read his mind. You can read his gestures, his words, etc. but unless you really get it straight out of him you cannot judge his motives. So love should maybe wait.
But in general, I would pursue. Most humans would embrace the chance to live in a fairy tale; and it seems you have been presented with one. Your decision.
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 13:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend then you shouldn't feel like you can't ask him anything. Just ask him how he feels about you and what he thinks the future might hold for the two of you......ask him like......I was thinking the other day and trying to picture my life down the road......where I would be and what I would be doing in five years....have you ever thought about that?? When he answers it will give you some clues and if it doesn't just ask him then kind of like........so where do I fit into that equation? He will answer you just make sure it is just the two of you talking and you won't be interrupted during this.........that should do it! Good luck!
2007-03-26 12:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by mouthygirl20012001 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great event to behold, even better to experiance, grats on it! The answer is simple, you never know. Im not trying to be pesemistic, but even a perfect gentlemen can be just leading you on. As with every answer you will get here, take everything with a grain of salt my friend. Dont rush into anything that you will regret.
2007-03-26 12:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Niko 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont feel stupid!!!!!!! :)
that is the most cutest thing i have ever heard! that is like the perfect first kiss! he might just love you. i mean it might be too soon wether you two have been friends 4ever or not. the good thing is that i think he is not leading you on. i think that maybe he never knew if you liked him or there never was a "good" time to ask you. just take things for what it is.... enjoy being with him. another plus thing is that you two know eachother already and have done things together and stuff. its not like you are startig from scratch with a new boyfriend... good luck. who cares if he does or doesnt love you.. its too soon, and LOVE is a strong word. just have fun and good luck
2007-03-26 12:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jdez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a perfect love story, Just take it slow. If he kissed you of course he feel the same way. I wish I was you right about now. I am so jealous Wow!
2007-03-26 12:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How romantic ,He loves you with all of his Being.How could you doubt it after that ,you could ask him for a repeat performance just to reassure you.You are not stupid, just unsure, because he is your best friend ,I think he is now the love of your life and has been for some time you are both aware of it ,you must be !!!!!!!!! Friendship and Love go Hand in Hand.Be a beautiful Bride.
2007-03-26 12:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he likes u in the same way u like him. and by the way i think if u had a "crush" for 5 years u cant exactly call it a crush anymore its called love. if he has been ur best friend for that long i think u dont have to feel silly talking to him about it. im sure he´ll understand.
good luck
2007-03-26 12:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Finn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds too perfect to be true! I wish it was like that with my crush! I say try it. He can't be leading you on. NO guys are THAT shallow!
2007-03-26 12:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋