i dont understand my mother in law...im in america shes in pakistan and we never met she dont even know engilsh and she never asks about her greand child here when she talks to her son i just wanted to know why would she never ask about her own grand baby....she never asks us to send pictres of here ...8 mos still never seen a new pic.....ive been sendingleft and right but now i stoped cuz she never ask anything about her like shes not even her .grand.child....thanks a lot
2007-03-26 05:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe she didn't approve of your marriage.
2007-03-26 05:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her Pakistani son married an American...a.k.a. not someone of their culture, she probably disapproves of the marriage and may not even acknowledge it, you or your child. Be happy she is an ocean away since there is litte she can do to actively upset you. Ignoring you can only bother you if you let it.
2007-03-26 12:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let me understand a few things before i rush into a conclusion pls.
1)are you of a paki origin?
2)have you married someone from a different culture?
3)where have you met your husband?
4)are your parents, and in-laws from the same religion?....if not please clarify.
5) have you talked to your in laws before marriage?
6) have you gotten their approval of a marriage?
I wish you a great life
2007-03-26 12:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe just maybe she doesnt even totally accept you either and thats why she doesnt want to know about your child. she is only interested in her child( your man) maybe when his mom calls he should ask her and see what she says , the truth might come out. maybe she is disappointed that he did this. maybe she is not wanting to get close to you or the child because your boyfriend has other plans. what language does he speak to her in? do you know what he is telling him mom? think about it. good luck.
2007-03-26 12:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms/Wives usually send the pictures out to relatives thru the mail and today some use email.
2007-03-26 14:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you focus on what other people are thinking? if you love your child, that's what she needs most.
2007-03-26 12:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she mite be into this arranged marriage crap
2007-03-26 12:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by an146442 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe her culture
2007-03-26 12:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋