my friend stephanie and her boyfirend is having a problem. her boyfriend likes stephanie,but he likes this other girl more than stephanie. and stephanie knows that. but stephanie wont do anything about it because she wants to stay with him. and he barely texts, or calls her! i dont like her being treated like this. When he isnt texting or calling stephanie, he is talking to the other girl he likes more. so what do i tell stephanie to do?
2007-03-26 05:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let the guy be with the girl he prefers, and who gives a shitzer about whether he doesn't txt or call her cos if u've already won a girl over y would u continuesly txt and call her, i mean if he's got wat he wanted frm stephanie then he has every rite 2 move on2 another, especially if he prefers the other girl, by the way is Stephanie u?
2007-03-26 05:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I know that you are looking out for your friend, and that's totally cool! But, what it all boils down to is.....what is your friend going to do? Whenever your friend has had enough, she needs to tell him. But, let her do that. I totally understand you don't want her to get her feelings hurt, and that you feel that her boyfriend isn't treating her the way that she needs to be treated, but at the same time, you have done your part as a near and dear friend. Now, you need to let your friend Stephanie handle this. She is the one in the relationship. And, she knows when she has reached her limits. Only she knows how much that she can tolerate, so just continue to be by her side, support her, and let her handle her own business.
2007-03-26 07:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by mixed_beauties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stephanie is an idiot. she has an amazing friend who cares about her and she's stuck with this jerk.
tell stephanie to get real- you can't love someone who doesn't treat you right. if you do, your sick. really sick.
she may cry, that's what usually happens. just be their for her, hold on a little longer. it should turn around- someone will have to blow up sooner or later.
take care friend of stephanie- your an amazing person to care about your friend this way.
2007-03-26 05:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's funny how some girls just don't mind being treated like ****... somehow, this guy has your gf stephanie dependent on him... i think it is obvious to everyone that stephanie deserves better and shouldn't be around with a two-timer having 'multiple' relationships at once (this is what it sounds like)... truthfully, why would you love someone, give them your heart, and want to be with a person who doesn't feel the same way, who 'uses' you, who disregards you, who favors someone else over you... she needs to find someone else.
2007-03-26 05:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by mrjoh2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This divorce is a loss--purely like the shortcoming of a individual in dying--we mourn it , come to grips with it and then pass on. The divorce needs to be mourned via your buddy--which will take time--as lots time because it needs to get previous it. life does not quit whilst a divorce occurs--all in contact would desire to pass on of their own way. your buddy needs to return to grips and understand that that's an grownup venture--he needs to make certain it from an grownup potential--or as terrific as he can. the mothers and dads had issues--they don't look to be blaming him--he's not the reason for it. He needs to help whoever is left looking after him--that's a mutual help. human beings speaking is undesirable style--he needs to forget approximately approximately it--human beings will continuously communicate so enable them to be and forget approximately approximately it. there is not something you're able to do yet be friendly and supportive--he's a chum and could do a similar for you---steadily do extra social, relaxing issues, not too loud or seen--purely ease into it. enable him communicate his anger out--not combat--tell him that's okay to precise it to you. purely be a stable listener. thank you--stable success.
2016-11-23 16:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by herzog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can really do about it since your friend has to decide to not be treated like crap and if her boyfriend's showing obvious signs he's not interested she's not ready to accept that her man isnt wanting to be with her. All you can do is tell her the truth and be honest, but realistically she's the one that has to decide that she has to accept the fact her man isnt interested in her.
2007-03-26 05:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should break up. What's the sense of being together? The guy likes somebody else more than his own girlfriend.
2007-03-26 05:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a low slef-esteen, so try to raise it through logical conversation and reasoning
2007-03-26 05:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by EDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to Zorro, He is a 32 year old virgin.
2007-03-26 05:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smthin tells me dat this other girl is you,but anyway just tell her wat u think n show her how bad her bf is by not calling her n callin dat other girl n u can make her face da truth n help her to get over him by not leaving her
2007-03-26 05:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by John David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋