2007-03-26 04:48:42 · 17 answers · asked by simonzi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you don't want it, put it up for adoption.
2007-03-26 04:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Vegan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That answer is entirely up to u!! Let me ask u a few questions, and give u some advice. First off are u a student in high school or college?? Reason I ask is if ur older u may be in a better financial situation to where u can raise a child even tho it may be hard!! Next question, how long have u and ur man been together?? If ur leaning towards keeping the baby, stability is a good thing between parents cuz kids need stability. Do u see urself spending the rest of ur life with this person?? How long has he been out of work?? Does he know ur pregnant?? If so what is his reaction?? write back and I'll tell u what I did in my own experience!!
Gina
2007-03-26 12:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you have to make serious decisions. First, your man needs to get a job, he has nine months to do so. You have to see if emotional and physical pain from an abortion is worth it. I was a college student and so was my son's father. We decided to own up to our responsibilities and have our child. Children don't stop your dreams, just may slow it down a bit. We had absolutely no family here, but we are getting through it, we have a few friends that may watch our son for free, when we have something we need to do. I worked and so did he, but we worked seperate shifts so that someone would be home with the baby. Single mothers do it own their own all the time, heck my mother did it. Please don't use abortion as your form of birth control, I am not judging you for considering it, because I considered it for a brief second, and realized I couldn't do it, We made a stupid decision, and my baby didn't deserve to die because of it. Trust me it's hard, but keep this baby, because it's worth it.
2007-03-26 11:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby. You're not the first to go through that situation.
Your man needs to get a job!! You can get public assistance
until your baby si born or until you finish school. The mistake
you and your man made is not the baby's fault. Why not give
that child the opportunity to come to this world??
2007-03-26 11:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by lizzy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babies are precious from the first moment, although admittedly a lot of work. If you can't raise it yourself, there are lots of great people looking to start families and adoption is their only hope. Please don't abort. Consider giving your baby for adoption. Give her the gift of life. While pregnant, you can definately remain a student and you won't need any financial support from the father so there's no reason to end the pregnancy.
2007-03-26 11:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by C O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe in your choice, but I am personally pro life. Try to find a couple to adopt if you do not think you can care for this baby. Your guy should get a job anyway but if he were to do that you all should be able to keep the baby.
2007-03-26 11:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man should keep looking for a job. but, the decision should be based on how you feel about having a baby. Have you and your man discussed this? You could have the baby and have him or her adopted. but, abortion is a big deal. Make sure you weigh all of your options first.
2007-03-26 11:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by kris h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please don't abort your baby. So many people out there would love to raise your baby as their own. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 3 years with no luck...we've been considering adoption. If this is a responsibility you can't handle right now...allow someone to love your baby.
2007-03-26 11:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking if you should keep your baby or abort it, you should be asking if you should keep "your man" or leave him. There are a lot of programs you can apply for help.If you and your man are responsible enough to have sex, then you are responsible enough to get a job and bring this baby into earth.
2007-03-26 11:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not AGASINT abortion and im not at all pro abortion but there are situations where people feel they need to have an abortion first of all does your boyfriend know? if not tell him then ask your self are you in the right situation finacially to have a baby? Then whether you feel as if you will be able to look after this child ... whatever you choose i hope all goes well .xxxx much love ... oh and pleas do not look at those pictures on that website
2007-03-26 11:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by mommy2dil and kacey 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do not have an abortion if you don't want the baby. If you want the baby then keep it, but if you don't give it up for adoption.
2007-03-26 11:55:53 · answer #11 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋