IT HAS BEEN 5M SINCE I MOVED FORM NJ. TO MI.. IT TOOK ME TWO YEARS TO MAKE THIS MOVE. I'M IN THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR 31/2 YRS. I SPOKE TO HIM ABOUT IT AND HE ALWAYS SAID HE WILL COME SHORTLY..WE NEVER LIVED TOGETHER .I MISS HIM SO MUCH AND I TALK TO HIM MAYBE TWICE A WEEK. BUT I REALLY WANT HIM HERE WITH ME...THE PROBLEM IS THAT I JUST FEEL THAT I SHOULD JUST END THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I DON'T THINK HE WOULD MAKE THAT CHANGE. I MEAN WHEN WE TALK HE SAYS HE HAS SOME THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF BEFORE HE CAN MAKE THE CHANGE AND THAT WE NEED TO BE MARRIED BEFORE WE MOVE TOGETHER WHICH IM UP FOR BUT EVERYTIME WE MAKE A DATE SOMETHING HAPPENS AND WE HAVE TO CHANGE IT..DO YOU THINK IM WASTING MY TIME OR AM I JUST IMPATIENT? HELP ME PLS...HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT?
2007-03-26 04:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by vivi010571 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i would want to talk more than twice a week and would fix any problems to be with my lady as soon as possible --- so i think he is delaying for some reason --- what it is i dont know ----- i think you need a serious talk with him and find out what he truly wants to do ---- best wishes
2007-03-26 04:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think of everyone needs to have an prolonged distance dating. life occurs and gets in the way, you purely would desire to artwork around it. If somebody needs to be with their long distance BF or GF adequate/or they love them adequate, they are going to pass to the place the different individual is and quit the long distance element. those people who've relationships over the information superhighway or out of state "purely because of the fact" are in all risk dropping their time. long distance relationships wont final if there isnt dedication.
2016-11-23 16:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. You are there for him when he needs you and that's all he wants from you. You are SO waisting your time and he is NO GOOD. If smth always happens when you are about to meet, then something is really wrong. Trust me, when a guy is really into you, he makes the effort. Dump him. Good luck!
2007-03-26 04:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer... You said you feel like leaving him. That is the sixth sense and we should listen to it more often. Good luck.
2007-03-26 04:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by 1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is NOT gonna move.. but you can move ON with your life dear.. let him go..he isnt gonna make that move.
2007-03-26 04:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you
2007-03-26 04:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋