A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. But the thing is I'm still hurt by him and I can't look at him since I'm so mad so I just ignore him.
2007-03-26 04:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just keep ignoring him and you could also try to make him jealous, play his games with him. Now I know that sounds childish and it is but I have come to find when it comes to men, you have to b like them and flip everything on em to get what you want. Good luck.....
2007-03-26 04:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kansas City Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sending mix signals and act mature. If you guys were suppose to be friends then there should'nt been a problem communicating and talk like friends. Ignoring old friends at work does nothing but causes a hostile environment. If you want to talk to him again, apologize to him and explain to him that youre not that type of woman to sleep with him since he has a girl But if you have feelings for this guy, explain to him that you have a crush and if he can't respect what youre saying then he probably wasn't a good friend to have in the first place!
2007-03-26 11:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this is what you should do go and get another bf(boy friend) you don't need anyone that's gonna disrespect you or make you feel down and out and uncomfortable around them and that tries over and over again to make you jealous he is not worth your time i know this because i been in a similar relationship when i knew that i really liked him and wanted to be with him but when he started to do little things on purpose for me to not like him because he wasn't interested in me i just said forget him he's not worth wasting my time and i moved on so im telling you the best thing and the healthiest thing to do is find somebody else but take some time for yourself and figure out what you want
2007-03-26 11:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by preshay_richardson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is a bit immature. Im not sure what kind of guys your attracted to, but take into consideration he has a GF overseas and is flirting with you. It also sounds like he is causing you pain on purpose. Its prob his way of reacting to a possible hook-up gone wrong. In my opinion you should ignore him and find someone else who will treat you the way you are looking to be treated.
2007-03-26 12:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him how you feel and then ask hm if he likes you or not if not don't give him the time of day just move on you deserve better . .wait for a guy to meet your standards . .then go for it . . .
2007-03-26 11:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) didnt you write about this before and 2) just forget about him and move on, you dont need a man like him, he obviously doesnt give 2 s***s about you.
2007-03-26 11:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like DRAMA STAY FAR AWAY!!! Move on there are plenty of fish in the sea you work together so be civil with him, but undestand there is nothing between you and there will be!
2007-03-26 11:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hudhud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on, keeping on..
2007-03-26 11:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋