My lady is planning on her first tattoo, but she's getting in on her lower back above her a$s. Yeah, a tramp stamp. I told her about this but she doesnt believe me. I showed her some websites but she thinks they're kidding. I have no problem with what she chooses to do if it makes her happy, I don't want her to regret a tattoo in the future. (I told her to get a tramp stamp that says "Property of W.Bellatty with an arrow pointing to her a$s lol). Any ladies get a tattoo that they've regretted? Any advice I can give her?
2007-03-26 04:20:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
I would tell her just make sure she wants it. If this was a spur of the moment type tattoo ask her to wait a few months to see if she still wants it.
I have two tattoos and I loved both of them, however, I actually designed them with my artist then let him wait a few months to make sure I still like them when the time comes. I've had both for a few months now and no regrets yet.
And if you are worried about her getting a "tramp stamp" i wouldn't worry too much. The whole tattoo on the back thing is just a tattoo on the back, however, I think it's the woman that chooses to be a tramp. Not the tattoo.
2007-03-26 04:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a tattoo in the same spot that your lady is wanting to get hers. No, I don't regret it or any of the other seven I have. I really resent this term " tramp stamp" because so many women have it and you can't say we're all tramps. If she's willing to go through the uncomfortable sensation to get a tattoo above her @ss, it's her body, quit trying to talk her out of it. What does it matter what other people in society might think of her tattoo there if she's gonna let it show sometimes?
2007-03-26 20:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rose tattoo on my lower back above my a$s. It is NOT a "tramp stamp." It's pathetic that you would try to talk your girlfriend out of getting a tattoo. There is nothing wrong with them. I wanted one since I was 15, finally got it at 26 and four years later I don't regret it at all! In fact, I would have regretted it if I had never got one.
I think she ought to dump you though. I'm sure she'll end up regretting you more than a tattoo. You sound like a real winner.
2007-03-26 12:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ally O 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, getting your lover/partner's name inked on you is the kiss of death for a relationship (it seems). I had a friend that had like 10 names tattooed on him then crossed out...it was so tacky looking. Anyway, that was a very odd person in gerneral.
TrampStamp has become a very popular term. If she's not bothered by hearing it, no biggie. The tat would be somewhere it won't effect her professional life (not visable during interviews and such).
She should decide on a design and wait a few days before having it done. That way she won't end up feeling like she made a harsh decision. Buy some tattoo magazines to flip through to help decide the placement and style of the ink. At Barnes and Noble they tend to have good selection of tattoo books and magazines.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 11:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by wishtodream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you gave her the best advice by telling her not to get something that she will regret. The last thing she wants is to be 65 years old with a arrow pointing to her a$s. lol But to answer your other question, I have 3 tats and I don't regret any of them. I plan on getting a tramp stamp myself :o) Tell her to get something meaningful, something that she can look back on and be proud that she got it.
2007-03-26 11:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for starters a lower back tattoo doesn't mean a tramp stamp, a person should be classified how she acts not because of her ink.
i have a tattoo on my lower back and i absolutely love it, i also have 4 others and i have not regretted a single one of them.
Best advice i can give though is have her find something that she wants then think about for a few mos to make sure its something shes willing to live with for the rest of her life.
Good Luck
2007-03-26 11:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That "tramp stamp" thing...That so P*SSES me off. If your lady is faithful to you, you know she isn't a tramp. It is a LOWER BACK TATTOO. A tramp is a tramp with or without tattoos. And most ladies-yes-LADIES-sophisticated, intelligent, well-groomed, classy, educated, productive members of society-with tattoos are more than likely just collectors of fine art and not tramps!
Anyhoo, she doesn't need-and it isn't recommended cuz it is a jinx-your name above her back door fun zone. She should get something feminine and hopefully, a design with unique-ness with special meaning to her that she will never regret.
Support her. Go with her if you want.
2007-03-26 13:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well I think that is TOTAL BULL S-I-T! I have a tat in the same place and I am by no means a tramp and if you just met me you would not even think I was the type of person to have a tat, but I have 8 of them and 3 piercings. It is her body and if that is what she wants to do then support her decision!
2007-03-29 13:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I have is to make sure that the tattoo is something that means something to her. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Placement on her body is totally her decision.
It is my opinion that a tattoo on the lower back can be tastefully done without being trashy. It all depends on the design chosen.
2007-03-26 12:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by emschick1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her body and up to her where she gets it. I like tattoo's on girls but as long as they aren't too big. If a man wouldn't date or marry a woman because she had tattoo's or because of the placement then it's his loss. I've heard a few men saying they would never date a woman with tattoo's even if it was really small and easily covered.
Wish your lady good luck from me for when she gets her tattoo.
2007-03-26 13:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Sel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋