i kno i asked this already but i only got 2 answers, ok
this guy i like told me that he liked me as more than a friend and asked me if i like d him, of course i said yes and we have been hangin out for bout 2 days. does this mean we r goin out? bc he never said that specifically and i am confused. help me!!! bc if he wants me to be his girlfriend i need to act like one, but if i think he does but doesnt then i am pushin myself on him!!!
2007-03-26 04:13:04 · 20 answers · asked by ♥brunettehdm♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no we havent kissed, yes we have been friends for awhile, we havent been able to talk bc of no privacy
2007-03-26 04:21:46 · update #1
you need to kiss at least to become an item
2007-03-26 04:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well hmmm i would say just straight out ask him if u guys are a couple but it dosent seem like you going to do that so i would say do couple things and see how he reacts around you like go to the movies or if all fails just kiss if he kisses you then ya your his..
and uhmm about acting just be the same untill it's a bit clearer ok i know it sucks not knowing but just wait a bit..
i think he just is kind of shy and is kind of like you so just take time and see ok...
2007-03-26 11:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are just hanging out. Keep doing that for a while. It's a good way to get to know him without a lot of pressure on either one of you.
If you want to start being his girlfriend, maybe the next time you start talking about movies or music, ask him to the movies or to a concert or something, but in a casual, "just hanging out" kinda way. That way, you'll ease into the dating. And after that, you can ask him how you should introduce him to your friends: "Do I say, this is my boyfriend or do I say my friend?"
Good luck!
2007-03-26 11:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in the same prob. as you a couple of yrs. ago. Now that I am older and more mature I can honestly tell you that in no means if this guy your boyfriend. You should def. talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel..communication is a very imp. key to a happy and healthy relationship. By you guys hanging out may only mean that he is trying to see exactly how you are...but you should most def. ask him! Good Luck =)
2007-03-26 11:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by alcantarxyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girlfriend this is SIMPLE. He just needs to ASK YOU IF YOU WANT TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND! Then you say YES and THEN you are a COUPLE! Any two people can tell each other that they have feelings for one another but if someone doesn't ASK the question and the other person doesn't GIVE AN ANSWER....well then you're just in limbo! You're just two people who know that the other likes them! Just ask him. "So are we boyfriend girlfriend? And if he says....'Oh, I guess we are huh?' Then...you are!" Someone needs to ask child! :o) Good luck!
2007-03-26 11:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you aren't dating. You need to casually bring up the subject to him. Ask him what you guys are specifically. Because most guys just think you should automatically know. He shouldn't mind for you asking. It should let him know you are interested in being his girlfriend.
2007-03-26 11:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Amy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u to will have a wonderful relationship if u cant even open your mouth and ask him a question. how the hell is anyone here suposed to know whats goin on in his head, this here will only make you even more confused, if u want to be anything with him u have to comunitcate, unless of course you are a mind reader
2007-03-26 11:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aint going out or dating someone if you hung with each other for two days...that is nothing.! =D He will either ask you out on a date or...ask you out...in mean while...you should be acting and looking your best so...then he wants you even more..! And maybe make him Jealous.! =D Good Luck!
2007-03-26 11:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was the same with my girlfriend. we just started to hang out and eventually we started going out. no one asked each other out we just assumed that. i think you to are going out you just dont know. have you two kissed yet if yes thats a good sign that you guys are going out.
2007-03-26 11:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to ask him that just say are we hanging out or goin out if he likes you he shouldn't mind answering that. message me if you want 2 talk
2007-03-26 11:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by bunnyboo_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should get closer to him and then kiss and see what happens. You should ask one of his friends to ask him if your going out but make sure his friend doesn't tell him your asking...
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 15:28:27 · answer #11 · answered by Katiee:))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋