2007-03-26 04:02:15 · 21 answers · asked by malandrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to leave him now...he is the one with the problem not you...tell him to get help and you need therapy...good luck, easier said than done...but only the toughest survive...
2007-03-26 04:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by ileaddontfollow 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You MUST seek help ASAP.
I am sorry to say that in most cases, this only gets worse unless there is some help/therapy given.
I know this will be difficult for you...that you are afraid...but you MUST get away right now.
Call the police...trust me...they will direct you to agencies that help others with the same problem. They will give you a safe place to live, food, etc. They will also help you decide what you should do.
You will not be in trouble for this & you still have the choice to do what you want but you MUST at least tell someone else so they can help you.
There are MANY OTHERS out there in the same position. There are many places to go to get help. There are many places to stay, etc.
PLEASE CALL someone...if not the police, then the Dept. of Health & Social Services...I don't know where you live so I don't know what it is called there.
JUST CALL, PLEASE.
2007-03-26 11:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by SUSAN K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey it wont get any better I have been in this kind of relationship . I know right now you think you love him but really what is there to love. You are better then what you think you are. Its hard at first, but it gets so much better. I stayed in my relationship for 9 years but i got out and the only regret I have is not getting out sooner. Find you someone that you can call to help you get away from the guy. So when he calls you instead of talking to your ex call your friend so you have some for comfort it helps make the break up easier. Good luck to you I know you will be OK.
2007-03-26 11:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do is go to court and get an order of protection. Then you leave this person and never go back to him. This is not love. Love does not hurt. He is putting you in harms way for every time he beats you one day it could be your last. You deserve better. He who loses his temper usually loses. Break the silence call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
God Bless.
2007-03-26 11:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You leave a person who beats you or you end up dead. Anyone who puts their hands on you in anger, does not love you. A man or a woman who beats on their spouse does not do it because they love the other person. Never for one minute think that the person beating you, loves you. Leave the situation or it will only get worse. Thank you and may GOD bless.
2007-03-26 11:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Haha. No hon, that means they think you are below them in their sick *** mind. They obviously have some major issues. They deserve to be in prison being someone's *****!
If I were you, get out now! They will never change.. don't be scared of them.. protect yourself. You were not brought into this world to be someone's punching bag. Please get out of it. It's abuse! and very very very wrong! I feel for you.
Find you someone who truly loves you and will treat you with unconditional love. I would definitely recommend domestic abuse counseling and a restraining order. Women stay in these kind of relationships thinking that they won't ever do that and they love them.. but in reality that's not love!!!
Please get out.. or you will end up in the hospital or dead!
Look at Tina Turner, she finally left his worthless butt! And look at her now.. successful and happy
2007-03-26 11:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason i added you to my contact list because you gave that freaky, sexy answer about what should be said in the bedroom. The only time he should hit you is from the backside and spanky that a-s. You should love yourself before you love someone else. If you let him hit you, then you do not love yourself.
2007-03-28 14:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. That's not what love is...beating someone. He obviously have issues within himself. Leave that situation
2007-03-26 11:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This person has issues and do not not deserve you as a friend and is not in love with you.
2007-03-26 11:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What i alway think is the person that beat you all the time can not love you
2007-03-26 11:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tummy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
this is about you practising harm minimisation.
however,if you are honest about this you will see that you are worth more than being beaten.just because your self esteem is on the floor it doesnt meen you have proof you are no good because your being beaten.
NOW if this person has issue or not is none of your business,so just get yourself out of there and get ready to be loved respected,and nurtured
2007-03-26 11:09:25 · answer #11 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋