i know this is a very 'DUH' question but I'm not in a state of mind to think properly because my thoughts are very much clouded by my emotions so I need ppl out there to help me.
Is it really possible for a person to stop loving you in a short period of time (a few mths) when you were together with him for 1 year plus?
2007-03-26 04:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The relationship wasn't only abt lust and physical attraction.
2007-03-26 04:20:15 · update #1
When the things that seemed important before are not important anymore. When he looks like he's sick while in your presence. When he spends more time out in the streets than at home. When you talk to him and he doesn't listen, and when the respect for each other is gone. These are some good signs that a person doesn't care for you any longer. Unfortunately, when things get to that point, there's nothing that you can do about it. You must concentrate on yourself now; go through the emotional roller coaster (Hurt, anger, denial, depression, acceptance). It's going to take a minute, but you can do it. Most of all, keep your self respect, and dignity. Don't allow that person to take that with them too, once you go through the healing process. There's is a light at the end of the tunnel. Trust me! but you need to allow yourself to heal, versus dwelling on something that is no longer there, and will no longer be there. You can do it, I believe in you! even though I don't know you, take it from somebody that has loved very hard her entire life, and I had to learn the hard way, but I learned; just like you will learn. Thinking of you! ni ni :-)
2007-03-26 04:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone views love differently. Some people think they are in love when they never really were. People handle situations in different ways. Some show emotion, others don't. Some run from their problems, others let their problems consume every waking moment of their day. It's possible that the love is still there but maybe not as strong as it was. Maybe over time he slowly fell out of love with you or discovered it was never really love.
You shouldn't be worrying about why or if he fell out of love with you. The point is that he no longer desires to be with you whether love was involved or not. You shouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. Take it as a learning experience and use what you've learned in future relationships.
2007-03-26 04:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. If the person no longer shows interest in you, doesn't want to spend time with you, doesn't want physical contact, has difficulty finding anything to say to you, acts impatient and annoyed, is always making excuses to be away from you, seems to be paying more attention to other men/women, then it's over. Take heart. You will find someone else to love you.
2007-03-26 04:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year isnt even very long. Falling out of lust is very easy. You might love him but maybe he never truly loved you. I love you is something very easy to say.
2007-03-26 04:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie Pie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is possible......when they never knew what they had.
Do you feel like there's no "respect".....do they act as if your "input" is unimportant?
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Did you blame them for things they were'nt doing wrong?...(did you hurt them?)
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They may've never loved you....just "desired."
2007-03-26 04:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good indicator is when they use bullets.
2007-03-26 04:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-26 04:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋