im 13, in 8th grade, and ive never been kissed. im not ugly, but im not hott either, and ive never been asked out by a guy, nor have i been kissed. i like to think that im likeable, but maybe im not..all of my friends have been kissed, had boyfriends and all that jazz.
is this normal?
2007-03-26 03:56:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks everyone!! =] i feel alot better now
2007-03-26 04:12:03 · update #1
Of course its perfectly normal. Please dont rush into anything or go looking for a relationship just to 'get your first kiss'- make sure its with someone you really care about. You're only 13, you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone special, and believe me, he will come along some day
2007-03-26 04:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by fnxbru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It varies from person to person. I didn't have my first kiss until I was twenty! But...it was all downhill from there...: ) everything after that was pretty easy. I knew people in high school who lost their virginities at 11, 12...and I know people who are over twenty and haven't been even kissed yet. It's no big deal. Don't worry. I mean, I've actually only had two boyfriends. My first one was only two months long and we didn't kiss. The one I'm in now, I've been in for a month and a half and I've already spent the night with him (no sex...). It's very different when you're in an adult relationship. Honetsly, I'd say concentrate on school for now.
2007-03-26 04:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe its time for u 2 ask out a guy bucz when i wan in middle school with my friends they would get all the attention from all the guys and i wansnt ugly but not ask hot as my friends. Well i finally had the corage 2 ask a guy out and he said yes ( best of all i got kissed on our first date and we dated almost a month) after that i got asked out most of the time.
2007-03-26 04:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by JENNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie , its normal , I didnt get my first kiss til I was 15 , just wait for the right time , and the right person , and then you can tell all the details to your friends , dont rush it , it will come ...
Just be confident in yourself dont think that people dont like you . If you think that people dont like you then they wont , be very sure of yourself and things will turn out the way you want ...Your only 13 you haveplenty of years left....
2007-03-26 04:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by thewifey2086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal, hun. I had my first kiss at 14 (and they guy slobbered all over my face!) but most of my friends were OUT of high-school before they had their first kiss. And one of them was an international model!
Don't worry that your friends have had boyfriends and have been kissing, when you finally do find a nice guy, your first kiss will be worth the wait :)
2007-03-26 04:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't worry about it. Some around here are 26 and they've never been kissed. Just because the herd is doing it doesn't always mean it's the best thing to do, my dear.
2007-03-26 04:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PSHAW! You're only 13 and already you are complaining you've never been kissed?! Ha!
I am 21 and I have never been kissed...and I know I'm one hot lady! I just choose to save my first kiss for the right moment with the right man.
Don't just kiss anyone just to say you've been kissed. That's stupid. Hold out for someone special. Besides, you're only 13.
2007-03-26 04:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there not normal at 13 you are just coming into age. Before you know it boy's will be beating down your door. Then you will wonder why you asked this, don't get in a hurry like them it makes them look easy.
2007-03-26 04:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, at age 13 you need to be concentrating more on GRADES than BOYS. Concentrate on the boys when you are about 20. Even then, you will find, they are not that mature yet. You will be kissed when the time is right. Until then, crack open them books.
2007-03-26 04:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by jean d 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
from the point i c your question i will say there are 2 ways u can go!
1. wail for "Mr Right"
2. B the most popular(and i mean most popular) girl in school.
i personally like option 2
its the shortest and plus it makes sure u get the best possible guy!
(ps. guys the 2nd way is best for u too)
2007-03-26 04:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋