Hi there! I kinda don't know how to act, I'm not a big dater but I've met this guy about 2 weeks ago and we're having great conversations.Unfortunately he lives in another state, so we haven't met in person. He has told me that he really likes talking to me, and all that good stuff. But I haven't heard from him in about 5 days and I'm starting to wonder if I was becoming to get attached to him to early because I'm starting to think that he has lost interest. I hate when guys call me all the time so early after we meet but at the same time I connected so fast with this one that 5 days seem like an eternity. WHat do I do? Do you think I am tripping? I'm sure I should take it slow, after all It's been only less than 3 weeks since we've met. We used to talk every other day...
2007-03-26 03:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can relate to your problem. I had an over-the-phone/online relationship, and it went well. The guy i was attatched to left me for about 5 or 6 days and it turns out he was on vacation. If he hasn't talked to you yet then chillax. He could have a family porblem, be on vacation, or any other situation. I figure 5 days really isn't that long. Wait a little longer and take a break. Maybe thats just what hes doing. Just hang out a while, and if he doesn't email or call in at most the next 4 or more days then you have a problem.
2007-03-26 04:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down an allow him 2 contact u. U really can not make judgement so soon. He could really b busy r he could really have a girlfriend an have second thoughts about connecting with u. Think back on whatever u guys conversated about an see where u were going with it. Don't worry r stress him r u may just scare him away. It's hard dating someone from another state u have no idea what they r doing. b careful
2007-03-26 11:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met him in person and you're "tripping" like this all ready. Take a deeeeeep breath, my dear. Meeting someone online is not at all like meeting in reality. Slow down and realize what you all ready know.
2007-03-26 11:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by pilotpat2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even met in person -- so, yeah, you're being irrational.
Find a guy closer to home, you can actually meet in person.
2007-03-26 11:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus can people quit using this stupid word "tripping"?
my take is that he's either married, has a live in girlfriend or otherwise involved
if a man isnt getting p u s s y from you he doesnt view it as a relationship at all, trust me
2007-03-26 10:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you have that disorder of being a human being and you are intrested in someone that has a life in another state and now you feel lonely.
next question.. na i'm just playing..
no it's okay, it happens he'll come back around give it time k.
2007-03-26 10:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TodateI've yet to see a long distance relationship works. Move on.
2007-03-26 10:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call him
maybe his afraid of rejection
how many times has heard somebody say "no"?
how many times have you heard it?
maybe he will call you if or when he feels enough courage
2007-03-26 11:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋