Why wear super short skirt?

Question

Last weekend my b/f and I was walking along the pavement infront of Isetan when he nudged at me to look at the couple walking towards our direction. What I saw really really surprised me. The lady was wearing a pair of unbelievable short skirt. Its length was so short that we could see the tip of her white panty. When they walked passed us I turned to see her back and I was even more surprised. She was wearing a full butt panty and her skirt length fall short of at least one full centimeter. I also noticed people around are also stealing glances at her botton. My first comment to my b/f of her was "hiou" (vain) and why does she need to wear her skirt that short? Does she ever feel "pai seh" (embarrass)? Surprisingly my b/f think I'm over reacting and think she has the right to dress whatever she wishes as long as she feels comfortable and most importantly her male companion didn't object to her dressing. Soon we found ourselves in heated argument and we haven't spoken to each other for the last couple of days and I’m not ready to call him either. Do you think I’m too conservative and old fashion or is my b/f too open-minded?

Answer 1

How would you react if you you two saw a girl in a skimpy bikini on the beach.
lets changes things a bit.
Say the girl was wearing a bathing suit instead of the short skirt, would that make a difference?

It's all up to perception.
Now think of this, if it was a hot day, he was shirtless and she was also shirtless ( meaning no top or bra) how would you react, even though in Ontario it is legal for women to be topless.

It's all due to perception and your upbringing, there is no right or wrong, no laws were broken, it's just the ways you view things, you have your view, he has his.
Both your views have to be respected, and accepted, you are both right and wrong.
You are right to explain your feelings, your both wrong to force each other to change your ways, that's what makes us individuals

Answer 2

Super Short Skirt

Answer 3

Don't feel bad. We are in a democratic world. We are free. You should talk to your boyfriend and cheer him up. It's not the kind of argument that make things sour. Honestly, we(men) like to see women in short skirts. It could brighten a grumpy old man's day! Recent studies suggest that patients in the hospitals cared by female nurses wearing very short skirts were recovering very quickly compared to those attended by a conservative type of uniforms. It has something to do in promoting good blood ciculation. It's making the blood thinner and gushing. In doing so, they feel that they made other people's day complete. Another reason, they are trying to attract the opposite sex. Jenny, you are now in a highly sophisticated modern world. In some places I used to work and visit, walking totally nude was just as normal as walking with clothes. I know it will be hard for you, especially if you grew up in a very conservative parents or elders.

Answer 4

I'm sure she knew what the reaction would be and I don't think you and your bf should have stayed on that subject too much - my bf probably would have said the same thing, but at the same time, he would have said that the girl's bf just did not care about having his gf respected. There's no way I'd dress that way and there's no way my bf would let me dress that way either. But he would think it's okay for someone else just because they're not reflecting on him/our relationship. The girl w/the skirt just does not have too much tact - who knows, maybe she was hitting the go-go cages after her pimp took her out to eat, who knows & who cares - now go make up w/your bf and be happy you don't get that kind of negative attention.

Answer 5

They were obviously exhibitionists. They stretched it to the limit without going overboard for maximum response in a public place.

The best thing to do is raise an eyebrow, and ignore if it bothers you. There was no flesh involved.

Men also, are hardwired to look at girl flesh. Your boyfriend probably just wanted to POINT it out to someone, if you had seen it first Perhaps you would have done the same, said oh look at that... and then it wouldnt have been a fight? Try to see what would have been the outcome if you had noticed first.

Answer 6

Some women wear short skirts because they want to attract the guys. And others feel comfortable in them. Even though they say "i'm not trying to attract anybody"...that's a lie. Even though they are comfortable in them, they will still draw attention...no matter if they are trying or not. They can buy longer skirts, even though here in the States, its incredibly hard to find. They are making things shorter and shorter.

Answer 7

Your, right and that's a man's point of view. Yes we do like women's bottoms but it is tacky to walk around the street showing it, she may have been a hooker or a porn actress they often walk around that way. It goes to show just how little value she puts on herself to have to think that's the only thing she has to offer. " A woman with no Morals is like a diamond in a pigs snout." They just don't go well together. Stick to your guns on this, as for the guys that feel there is nothing wrong with their GF's walking around like that , look out below because she thinks even less of you for being with her.

Answer 8

I think you're both right.

On one hand, I agree with you: I myself would never dres in such a way. It would be embarrassing and destructive not only to my reputation, but to the reputation of women in general. I also believe that a women's body (or anyone's body for that matter) is something that is special, and is something that doesn't need to be shared with the entire world.

On the other hand, your boyfriend is right: That girl has the right to wear anything she wants.

Both of you have good arguments. I think you guys should just drop it and get on with life.

Answer 9

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I have to agree with your boyfriend on this one. If she is comfortable wearing that out and her boyfriend doesn't mind and or enjoys it then good for them! It's not up to others to judge someone on what they wear and where they wear it. If she is happy then she can wear what ever she wants, when ever she wants and where ever she wants. Most of us probably would wear a skirt that short but it's her choice, not ours.
Good question!

Answer 10

Wow, sorry to hear something so irrelevant caused such a problem. I tend to agree with both of you. She is free to wear what she wants, but I wouldn't want my loved one dressed like that.

The sad thing is, maybe she didn't realize just how short it was. I know women that throw things on without looking at them .