im 18 and i started tlking 2 24yr old female that i got her number from a chat line. she said she was curious and i was 2. we would txt each other mostly all day . we talked on the phone a few times and she sounded nervous. she started telling me she want me to b her 1st and wanted me to come out to NY 2 c her. one day i just decided 2 ask her if she had a boyfriend. she said her babyffather. i knew she had a 2yr old but i didn't know she was with the father still. i thought she was free and single like myself. i confronted her and she was like he knows that she talks to me. i got a little angry and ignored her 4 a few days. then i decided that i really liked her so i cld over look that. so we were talking again and everything was okay until she asked me if i would have a threesome. i said maybe and asked y. she then texted me saying it has always been a fantasy for her and her babyfather. i then got smart and said so now y'all wanna live out some fantasy she said it wasn't a fantasy..
2007-03-26 03:48:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now and they just want a little companion. i was so caught off gaurd by this because i was tlking 2 her no talk of a three way was ever brought up. i then got smart and said "a companion? is that what it's called? basically saying that i don't do things like that. the last text i sent i just said to her that i see what their trying to do, which is to find someone 2 f u c k with. so i let her have it and i told her i think i shld stick 2 guys because i'm not the one and she shold find someone else to b her first cause i'm all good. i just don't get it then today she txted me saying i was wrong 2 diss her. i told her she was wrong because i liked her not her man and i don't do companionship. finally i just texted her saying "like i said before i'm not the one have a nice life". she just turned me off and i don't c how i'm wrong when she was up 2 something other than what she told me
2007-03-26 03:49:47 · update #1
she wanted me to b her first as in the first female she gets with
2007-03-26 03:55:21 · update #2
GIRL YOU WERE BEING SET UP.....NO YOU WERE NOT WRONG FOR DOING THAT.. IF IT WAS ME I WOULD OF DONE THE SAME THING. WHO THE HECK GIVES HER THE RIGHT TO PLAY WITH SOMEONES FEELINGS..NO GIRL CUT ALL TIES WITH HER DON'T ANSWER HER CALL AND DON'T TEXT HER BACK EITHER. SCREW HER..LET HER LOOK FOR SOMEONES CAUSE YOUR NOT UP FOR THAT....SHE IS CRAZY.....SHE KNOWS YOU WERE FALLING FOR HER SO IT MADE IT EASY FOR HER TO TARGET YOU..SORRY HONEY.....GET OVER IT AND THANK THE GLORY THAT YOU WERE NOT INVOLVE WITH HER YET BECAUSE THEN THAT WOULD'VE REALLY MESS YOU UP....TAKE CARE...
2007-03-26 04:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by vivi010571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're trying to con you into a threesome to fulfil HIS fantasy, not HERS.
Don't text her anymore. Change your number. You deserve a lot more respect than that.
Just because your body is a temple, doesn't mean it should be open to the public 24 hours a day.
2007-03-26 03:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong.
You are wrong to develop an emotional attachment to words on a phone when you've never even seen this woman, let alone know that she really is a woman.
You are wrong to believe that "she want me to b her 1st" when she already has a 2 year old child.
You are wrong to even be mad at her when you've been playing the game with her.
Grow up!
2007-03-26 03:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world. There are millions just like her looking to take advantage of someone who is naive. Use a little street smarts and don't let anyone in until you know who they are. Texting and chatting will never tell who a person really is. Consider yourself lucky. Now that you're 18 you're fair game for all kinds of predators.
2007-03-26 03:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO!
this is what you get when your bi..
first off there's nothing wrong with liking another girl, second i understand where you're coming from. it seems you wanted someone to talk to and eventually go further right? and it would have but she didn't tell you she was with her baby daddy still. this would have made me mad too. i feel you i think she was wrong in this situation for not keeping it real from the getgo
but it's still funny.. LMAO
2007-03-26 03:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you did what you thought was right. If you are not into that then you stood up for yourself and didn't let yourself be brought down. I myself don't understand swingers. In Gods eyes that is considered adultrey. Keep your chin up you will find someone.
2007-03-26 03:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
half way through your story i already knew they we're trying to just get you into bed. Dont call her/them anymore. Be smart, and stay out of trouble. You did the right thing.
2007-03-26 03:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by henry_o01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez. Get out before it's too late. What a nightmare. She sounds like a drama queen. Good luck.
2007-03-26 03:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You re not wrong but she has nothing more to say to you as you didnt react in the way she wanted
move on
2007-03-26 03:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋