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What are some sweet little things I can do that will make her feel really appreciated?

2007-03-26 03:44:23 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

Guys, I know you care about her, but you don't know what to do to make her feel safe, cherished and loved. Here it is, straight from the mouth of babes:

The small everyday acts he does.

Saying he will love me no matter what I do.

Flowers on the pillow.

Being protective where it counts. He lets me know that he would never let anything harmful happen to me.

Breakfast in bed.

Being generous with himself, regardless of the pressures he is under.

When he's with me, he's with me. I have his complete undivided attention.

Keeping the sparkle alive in our relationship by continually trying to surprise and impress me. What a guy!

Being supportive of me makes me feel loved. Then, when I feel loved, I am more self-confident and am willing to take more risks in my career.

Listening to my ideas and is willing to discuss them.

Excited and proud of me and my work. I know that he's proud when he goes on and on about what I'm doing.

Being my best friend. As my best friend, he accepts me and loves me just the way I am, whether I put on 5 pounds or lose 5 pounds.

Being tender, thoughtful and making me laugh.

Being romantic.

Saying I love you.

The way he treats me shows me how much he really loves me.

Showing his love in lots of different ways.

Taking care of me, honoring me and respecting me makes me feel safe.

I love the gifts he gives me, but the best gift is his emotional support.

Accepting me as I am.

How he lights up when I enter a room.

Encouraging me to pursue my goals.

2007-03-26 03:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by CK 4 · 3 0

Show her. Write her a poem or go online and find one, make her a CD, give her some flowers. But there are plenty of things that you can do that don't cost anything like just cuddle with her in bed, give her massages, cook for her, talk to her, listen to her, compromise with her, send her text messages every morning just to say good morning and I love you, hold her hand, tell her she is beautiful, spend time with her, and make sure to put effort into the things you do together. Those things will make her feel special. I wish my bf would ask this question

2007-03-26 10:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 5 · 2 0

Honey, what ladies really want is man that can do "the little things" like just simply being there for her, telling her you love her, seeing things in her point of view and listening to her. But mind you this should be vice versa as lots and lots of ladies seems to forget this thinking that men are to do all the work and all we do is receive. Being in a relationship should be a give and take thing. All the best honey

2007-03-26 10:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Suga 1 · 0 0

Bro - you really should come up with stuff that's personal between you two. Certainly, you can think of SOMETHING you could do without soliciting our help. If you're stuck at the moment, that's cool. Try not thinking so hard about it.

Now, the advice: Do not write poetry you didn't write! She'll pick that off in a heartbeat. The flower thing is over rated and simple. Come up with something original and personal. Tell her you didn't buy her flowers so you could take her to her favorite restaurant. If lingerie is something she likes, buy it from Victoria's Secret and NOT Frederick's. I guarantee she'd rather feel sexy than slutty. Not that slutty is horrible in the bedroom!! Perfume, her favorite make-up, stuff like that should work.

Good luck!

2007-03-26 10:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by pilotpat2000 2 · 1 0

Tell her what you like about her and why she's special and different from other girls. Basically, tell her why you chose her. Strike up an intelligent conversation with her. It'll show her that you value her opinion and think of her as a real person, and not just "a girl." Hug her, touch her face and hair, stay close to her, look her in the eyes and smile at her. Make sure she knows that you guys are FRIENDS as well as something more so she knows that you like her as a person.

2007-03-26 10:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by :) 5 · 0 0

you should know what she likes. basically do some of these...

take her out to a real public place, wrap your arms around her shoulders as you two walk around kissing her neck and check from time to time when you see other girls (girls that can't have you hate it but your girl will love it)

offer to do what ever she wants atleast twice a wk the more random the better.

make her dinner if you can't cook order from a niice resteraunt and throw it in a pot on low so when she arrives the aroma is throughout the house. (yea works everytime)

let her know how you feel, that's the most important a girl will appreciate that more than those jeans you just bought her.

and on top of it all talk to her about her.. girls like that, but you HAVE TO LISTEN most guys don't.. if you can listen AND REPEAT LISTEN AND REPEAT she'll love you forever..
-pz-

2007-03-26 10:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0 0

Be the gentleman that you sound like you are. Make sure you open doors for her. Let her know that you really listen to her. You don't have to buy her things to show her you appreciate her. Make her dinner. Rent her favorite movies. Dedicate a song to her on the radio, Tell her how nice she looks even on her bad days.

2007-03-26 10:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0 0

Do all the things that you wouldn't normally do. Like flowers, chicks dig that. Have a movie night at home. Call or text , that you were just thinking about her. Tell her how cute she looks when she is sleeping. There's so many things that you could do to make her feel special. Just use your brain and think.

2007-03-26 10:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by imari104012000 3 · 1 0

Make eye contact and listen to every word she says. Make her feel like what she says matters. Don't let your eyes glaze over when she starts talking about her new pair of shoes or recent gossip. Learn how to cook real good and do some of the chores around the house.

2007-03-26 10:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie Pie 3 · 0 0

Pay attention! Remember details! My bf gets me the greatest gifts, not cause it's material, but it's things Ive mentioned and he remembers, like a cd Ive been wanting to listen to, etc.

2007-03-26 10:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by imix3 2 · 0 0

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