I have been seeing this guy for about a month, we only see each other about once a week cos he is busy at work, and he never phones me during the week i find it so frustrating as i really have fallen for him and when we are together we get on so well! but last week he ignored my text i sent him which is out of character anso a few days later i sent him another asking if he was ok, to which he didnt reply till the next day, so i didnt reply to him till the following day and i still have no answer to my text! is he trying to tell me something?/ i feel really gutted should i just delete his number and move on? and no i havent slept with him.
2007-03-26 03:44:18 · 18 answers · asked by sugarcoatedhoneylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he has given you the brush off unfortunately; which is very mean but unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it. Console yourself with the fact that he is very immature by acting in this way and so he is not really the guy you fell for. Sounds like you've had a lucky escape!
2007-03-26 03:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by kchick8080 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through pretty much the identical scenario, and unfortunately for me it, it did not have a happy ending....
If your gut instinct is saying something is wrong then generally it is. I don't know about you or your partners' pasts- has either of you recently come out of another relationship prior to each other? maybe he has just got a bit scared because you are so into him and he isn't at the same stage as you and therefore he is backing off.
I think your best bet would be to be diplomatic but honest next time you see each other and ask him what he wants. I was in the same boat as you and i know how frustrated you must be. I asked, didn't get the answer i wanted, but felt much better for knowing where i stood.
Don't delete his number yet- leave it for a couple of days and see if he contacts you. men- mysterious creatures at times!
good luck!
2007-03-26 10:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by kittkatz_00 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah all the other noters on here are right, this guy doesn't seem worth it. I mean you haven't really been dating properly and he doesn't seem to have much time for you.
You seem like a nice girl and since you seemed to fill compelled to tell us that you haven't slept with him I guess you've got morals too (which is a rarity). So my advice is move on, find someone worth it, not someone whose only willing to see you once a week. Think of it texts back and fourth constantly, long phone calls and real dates - this could all be yours if you want, just not with this guy I'm afraid.
Best of luck. x
2007-03-26 10:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he isn't as hot on you as you are him !
Try leaving his phone number on your phone but don't send any more messages until you get a message from him asking why you haven't stayed in touch...& then be truthful & tell him what you told us here....
Maybe he can't commit himself to a relaitionship at this time.
If I were you I would go & do things you always said you would do if only you had the time ! Look up old friends & enjoy your freedom while you have it.
If this guy doesn't really seem bothered...move on & seek out new friendships etc. There is some-one out there who will appreciate you ... just give it time.
2007-03-26 10:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by skippy's mum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of reason why we don't text you back imediately, Mine is cause I don't check my phone for messages every 5 mins. Others are cause it might be too late at night to do it. The places I work don't always have cell phone coverage 100% of the time. Stop playing games - cause he is late sendind a sms you are? Grow up. Just send him a message saying you miss him, or that you have been thinking about him (ps once a week might not be too excessive)
2007-03-26 10:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to say but unfortunately this guy seems to have lost his interest in you..maybe he realizes you aren't his type. Or maybe he's just really busy! Well, i practically ignores everybody while im busy too. But If he seems reluctant to reply..and perhaps reply a one or two word ans...it got to be the first reason. =O
But if you really really likes him, then please make it clear to him! Ah..guys, as you know, may not really know. If he doesn't like you im sure he'll make it clear to you sooner or later. Dont' delete his no..lets just wait awhile..lets see.. two more weeks? If he really ignores you then just forget about this boy and move on to another! Dont be silly like me... i once waited for a guy for a near 3 yrs. :(
2007-03-26 10:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by misseighteen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u've said it all. he is sending u a message.in the first place u have to be clarified. getting allow is not being in love.does he really love u?
if u are sure he is then he maybe very busy at work. but in this case, he is losing interest. u have to try getting over him cos he is clearly losing interest in u.
delete his number from ur phone or u will be the loser of the day.
2007-03-26 11:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by lilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday
I would like to chat on yahoo IM with any girl who likes my poem (or add me to your buddy list)
2007-03-26 10:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just leave him to it if he wants to play games; Seeing him once a weeks is not really anything short of silly really as you havent had any time to get to know him, and you've probably seen him like 4 times? Leave him to it and enjoy yourself, i know what its like to fall for someone and they act like an *** but if he wants you then he will come for you. Get rid of his number and good luck
2007-03-26 10:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are not seeing this guy. He is not your boyfriend.
If you've seen him once a week for a month, then you've been on approximately 4 dates.
This does not a relationship make. You barely know the guy, he obviously isn't serious about you, move on.
2007-03-26 10:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋