Everyone is like you shouldn't get married so young, you have ur whole life ahead, u may change your mind and find someone else!
But they don't understand that we are both the type to wan to settle down and start a family, and we love each other sooo uch and we both have very good morals and we both belive that you have on true love and you don't just stop loving somebody! We both don't like to party so it's not like we need to experince much, and everyone is so negative all the time!
Why can't people realize that two people have met, fallen in love, and want to be togther for the rest of their lives? Why do they think that this sounds to great and that sometjing will go wrong in the future? Why cant they just except the fact that sometimes love goes almost perfectly for some people!
2007-03-26 03:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand, my wife was 15 and I 17. I told my father she was pregnant so he would sign papers, she wasn't. We have been married 44 years now and still love each other. All other family members on both sides of our families including fathers and mothers have been divorced and remarried. The same ones that said we would not make it.
I wish you luck and may God bless you
2007-03-26 03:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of people feel as though if you get married at a young age that you will never have the opportunity to experience other relationships, having the opportunity to travel, getting to see the world, etc. If you feel that you are ready for marriage and a family then I say go for it. Just as long as you are happy.
Some people date one person their whole life, marry them and have a family and are very happy, others date alot of people and never find that true love or get married and are not happy.
Plus those people that are suspicious of true love may have had alot of bad relationships and they don't want to see you go through the same thing. I am not married yet or have children, but from seeing others around me (friends and family members), when you do get married, you may want to way a couple of years to start having kids just so you and your spouse can enjoy doing things together without having to worry about a child (vacations, having alone time, both getting into a good and wanted career).
Good luck
2007-03-26 03:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Important 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of us have been thru that. Everyone has fallen madly in love and think they will never want anyone else cuz that person is perfect for you... BUT, like a lot of people say.. people change in time. I think you were the kid in HS. that posted that other question.. just relax and enjoy spending time with eachother. You have your whole life ahead of you to get married. There is such a high rate of divorce these days. Love is not perfect. You might think that cuz you are young. Love is awesome but hard too. Wait till you get a taste of the real world of paying 360.00 car payment $700.00 mortgage payment.. credit card bills, etc. But, relax.. when the time is right you will know.. cuz obviously you don't know cuz if you did.. you wouldn't be posting it on yahoo.
Good luck hon!
2007-03-26 03:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley you will be asking this question in regards to many different things throughout life. There will always be people who will discourage you from what you want. Part of growing is to become your own person. Knowing your values and beliefs and sticking to them is what will aid you in life. Although I don't know you personally, you seem articulate about what it is you want. So go for it! Only you are they key to your happiness, don't rely on others for it!
And if, you find yourself up against a type of resistance that turly has the power to keep you back from your choices your best chance is to argue it logically. Simply state that neither them or you are capable of predicting the future and that simply not trying something out of fear of what "may or may not happen" is just plain silly.
Following your own happiness is the only point to existence; and plus, if it did go wrong, you'll have the satisfaction of knowing you tried, whcih will stem off the worst demon in life: regret. Good Luck!
2007-03-26 03:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your saying. Something I have realized is that there are very few people in the world that believe in TRUE LOVE. and I believe that once you find that other half, you should spend every second of your life with them. because unfortunately no one knows when its there time to go. GOD has a plan for everyone, and you can never predict the future. I belive that if you know what you want, then you should go for it. I WISH YOU AND UR FUTURE HUSBAND THE BEST OF LUCK
2007-03-26 03:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i began on Christmas Eve at the same time as i became 11 and that i wasn't even efficient what became happening so i did not tell human beings.. and that i stood up and there became blood on the cream settee. Granddad and brother were there which became embarrassing.. very last 3 hundred and sixty 5 days i began my era at the same time as in school and that i forgot to convey some pads with me. I went to the rest room at lunch time and positioned a pink patch on my denims.. fortuitously, i became waiting to sneak out without human beings seeing me and making me visit lesson.. yet I had to carry my acceptable over my bum for extra or less the 40 minute adventure residing house..
2016-12-02 20:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by blacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a previous question you mentioned you were 17
you also had another question about props in bed
if you need props, at 17 something is not "perfect"
why don't you just live together, see how that works out, then everyone will see if you are too young to marry by how you handle that realtionship ( you already have a sexual relationship)
2007-03-26 03:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by ann s 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you tell people how old you are then they will react that way, just remember don't seek everyones approval, if you know you are getting married or have found the right person then that is all the matters. It not about them anyway it is about you and your significant other. You don't have to explain everything to everyone, just be yourself and don't pay any attention to them and you will be fine.
2007-03-26 04:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you looking to others for their approval?
if you ask other peoples opinions then they'll give it honey. if you feel ready to get married then thats your business. Listen to what others have to say because at times they speak with wisdom, but at the end of the day you do what you feel happy doing babe, we all make our own mistakes & whatever choices we make in life whether they're good or bad, we get to pay the price...................................just keep that in mind.
2007-03-26 03:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Funky 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha ! how old are you????
anyway if u think u and tht guy are sure about ure ideas , you shuld just go on about it and tell the people around how much it means to you and care nothing about their comments.
but make sure that you dont regret in ure future!
2007-03-26 03:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by twinkle stars 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋