i met this perfect guy on the net........we started writng to each other for over a year..........now we are planning to meet in person and i am scred like hell and also excited what do i do? how do i approach him?help me
2007-03-26 03:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am by the way 18 and he 21.......
2007-03-26 04:11:43 · update #1
This should be easy for me. I went to London UK to meet someone from the net. I was talking to him for a bout 6 months when I went over there.
He met me at the airport. And I was the same way scared and excited. And when I first saw him, the being scared went away and the excitement took over.
If there is chemistry between the two of you, It will work out naturally. But I must say, you need to go. If you don't go, you will never know and that may haunt you for the rest of your life.
2007-03-26 03:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by karebear81x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's feeling exactly the same! Try to plan the day and pick your outfit the night before. In the morning, have a long soak in a scented bath with relaxing music going.
Yes, meeting your guy in person is a nerve-wracking experience, but once you're there just tell him you've been really nervous and excited about meeting him, he'll understand.
Congratulations, hope it all works out for you :)
2007-03-26 03:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chatting for a year is like talking with someone in person for a couple hours. There is no such thing as a "perfect" guy or girl There is a "screen" that is put up when people talk on the 'net. You have no idea what he's really like. You don't know about his friends, family, job, etc. Only what he's told you that may be completely fictitious. Be careful.
2007-03-26 03:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and for most I am glad you waited a year at least to meet, means both of you are interested in each other, and above all being safe, you never want to meet with anyone over the internet, but what you do need to do is meet in public even though you have known each other through the internet alot of weirdos, can wait that long to do their ugly whatever to put it politely, and don't be alone with on your first meeting ..... public public public, I know its your first meeting and I don't know a thing about the guy, and he could be the greatest trusting man alive, but ... you never know,
When you meet him be yourself , be direct , be the person he ment on the internet, truthful, and wonderful, at the same time being safe.....He will like you alot better if you are yourself, and truthfully honest to him and forthright.
2007-03-26 03:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him approach you hehe. If you guys are in love. Ask him to kiss you before he says anything to you. So it will be a romantic first kiss. You can say, the first time he saw me he walked up to me and kissed me without saying a word.
It will also break the ice, and then just smile at him, and after 20minutes you will warm up in no time.
My spouse and I didnt see eachother for 5 years and when we did he was married and I was dating someone else, we were just friends. Then he wrote me an email one day to see how he was. After I didnt talk to him in 2 years... then 11 months later I flew across the world to meet him, and I was nervous as hell! He kissed me, and then I thought I would be shy... but I just stopped nonstop I was so nervous!
2007-03-26 03:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm efficient he's feeling the very similar! attempt to devise the day and %. your outfit the nighttime in the previous. interior the morning, have a lengthy soak in a scented bath with relaxing song going. definite, assembly your guy in individual is a nerve-wracking adventure, yet once you're there only tell him you've been really worried and enthusiastic about assembly him, he will comprehend. Congratulations, wish all of it works out for you :)
2016-12-02 20:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by blacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared with lots of circumstances. Please don't get mad at me, this is just a reminder for your own good too. Lots of cases happen meeting with a net guy. Well known cases is rapes, kidnapping, and robs. Try to ask someone to accompany u to meet him or meet at some place that well known to your friends or your parents or someplace that lots of people around.
2007-03-26 04:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you feel scared though? Were your conversations like the ones in "You've got mail" or did he give you any reason to doubt about his character?
So, being scared or not depends on what his personality is like, what he thinks you are like, what you 've let him tell you on the net.
Just approach him, and if you don't like his attitude don't lie.
It's normal to feel scared, you never know what 's expecting you when you meet someone on the net.
2007-03-26 03:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it casual, keep it public, don't be crewl if they are not what you expect. Hey at least have a free meal!
Perhaps take a friend with you on the first date!
2007-03-26 03:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call first and touch bases. do not meet until you talk over the phone first and if you do meet, meet at a public restaurant okay?
2007-03-26 03:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by cpinkfloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋