i meet this guy and we've been talking for about a week now. We've only seen each other twice. He says that he thinks he's falling in love with me. But I am very suspicious of him because I think that a week is too soon. I told him to take it slow. Should I believe him or should I trust my gutt?
2007-03-26 03:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by PASSIONATE LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i dont know this guy he might just be very passionate or whatever but a week is definatly waay to soon to be 'falling in love' he may be mistaking love for infatuation or lust which is commonly done,or maybe he just wants to get you into bed and thinks that he'll get there quicker by saying hes inlove with you
2007-03-26 03:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only met him twice and spoken for only a week, it's WAY too soon to be talking about love. You're absolutely right, you need to take it slow. Rushing into this stuff is a recipe for disaster.
Thank God there's one sensible one among the two of you. And good on you that you're the one.
2007-03-26 03:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have asked me this 15 months ago I would have said "girl you better turn and run" But in my expirence I find that is more then possible to fall in-love with someone in a week. See Im a lesbian, its hard to find people out there of the same sex so I talked to my gf online for a day or so and she asked me If I was interested in meeting..I said sure. I lived in maine she in massachusetts..So I went to mass for a few days and we hungout and talked alot..when it came time for me to leave I realized that I didnt want to..I went home and for the next week we talked constantly either on the phone or online..After about 8 days I told her..I have something that I need to tell you and I hope it doesnt freak you out but I love you...and she was like really? I have wanted to tell you that since the day after you left but I didnt want you to freak out and not talk to me again...So after about three months of me coming on to see her on my days off from work and spending weekends with her We moved in together..Let me tell you I have never been so happy. If you feel the same way i sai go for it and see where it leads to..just dont jump the gun on sleeping together, wait until you feel the time is right.
2007-03-26 03:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a bunch of bull, but you never know. About 2 weeks after my boyfriend and i starting dating i knew that i was going to love him forever. I guess I was probably in love with him already. And the funny thing about it is that he felt the same way. Its been 3 years and we are still together. So, give him a chance but don't let your guards down.
2007-03-26 03:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by imnlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes time. It may be infatuation or lust at this point. Trust your gut reaction. If you want to keep the relationship going, go slow and be cautious.
2007-03-26 03:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do think a week is too soon to fall in love.But it depends.Still, u need time to make urself believe what he means...
2007-03-26 03:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe love at first sight is possible. But I always say to trust your instincts.
2007-03-26 03:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you two?
it's possible but if you two are young like under 22yrs old... i think it might be a case of puppy love. but find out
2007-03-26 03:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust your gut!!! no one falls in love that soon!! you should talk to him about it!!
2007-03-26 03:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋