Men should love before getting married, women should love their men they want to get married to, then should love be 50 - 50, or 60 -40 ?
2007-03-26 03:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I beg to differ. Men and women should love each other before getting married period. There shouldn't be any 'let's get married first and the love will come later', because that'll probably just set you up for a quick and hurtful divorce. As of 2002, 31% of marriages end, and that's because it's slowly decreasing. Don't let yourself be in that statistic. If there's any doubt, go without.
2007-03-26 03:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shades of Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always say 50/50. In order to succeed i a relationship, two persons should have mutual feelings and understanding. It is 50/50 beacuse you have to leave 50% for yourself. You cannot truly love anyone if you don't know how to love yourself. But loving oneself to the extend of hurting, using or manipulating anyone is such a selfish act which lead to 60/40 or even 70/30, while this person think that it was equally shared. Unfortunately he/she can't see clearly, this person was blinded by those enormous feelings. His unbalanced action may lead to fatal attraction or crime of passion. Hiding in a motive, this negative action will lead to separate direction. While loving without question or even sharing an agape love will lead to 30/70 or 60/40 even 0/100. If the person loves unconditionally anyone can take advantage of it and use it for self preservation. Any which way you look at it, this ratio does not really matter at all. What matter most is that two persons love each other,willing to share for richer or poorer, to live in sickness and in helath, for better or worst. With an open line of communication and God in the center, willing to compromise and know how to give and take. Whether that persons shows an agape love or the exact opposite of it,it's not the subject anymore, it's how a couple worked to build a home, raise a God fearing and humane nation. Love like a Dove and as wise as a serpent. Giving it all 100% to God anything else will follow. God Bless and may you find some value in it.
2007-03-26 12:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by swan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 50
2007-03-26 10:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
50-50, they should love each other equally before getting married
2007-03-26 10:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real....you cannot measure love. Either you do or you don't! Love should definitely be a basis for marriage but there is a lot more than that...trust, belief that the other other person shares your values, and an honest desire for YOU to make the other one happy (because that ultimately makes you happy!) And, believe it or, love does grow, if you are lucky, it will grow deeper and deeper until you can't believe how damn lucky you are. So....good luck and God bless
2007-03-26 10:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by gmabell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 / 100
2007-03-26 10:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should be 110%
no half and half wtf you two don't need to get married cuz you're obviously confused.
love should be equal you two should be arguing over who loves who more not who loves who at a 50% average.
geez i feel bad for your spouse..
2007-03-26 10:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be equal.
2007-03-26 10:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋