I went on a college trip to barcelona last week and got chatting with this girl from another class. I was dancing with her on the first night and woke up with a hangover and her in my head. i spent the rest of the week thinking about her. my friends said they noticed that she might be interested in me and asked her how she feels and she said that she likes me as a friend, enjoys dancing with me and would maybe like to go further. I finally plucked up the courage on the last night of the trip to tell her how i feel. She said that she wasnt sure what to say about what i sed but told me she was getting back with her ex. I thought ok no harm done and enjoyed the rest of the night. However i woke up next morning with another hangover and her back in my head! im now back home and have been thinking about her for three days straight. Why does she refuse to leave my head. There were other pretty girls there who may have been more suited to me but this one stays on my mind. Im really confused.
2007-03-26 03:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Daniel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey you have true feelings for her. You are falling in love with the girl. You just have to convince her that you really love her. Or scare the crap out of her ex. It might take time. But if you really are thinking about her non stop I think you should go after her. Good Luck Sugar
Kimimila
2007-03-26 03:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Fighting Irish Lass 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly what you are talking about. Why does it happen? No clue. I'm torn between blaming hormones and blaming God.
Your first mistake was probably showing all your cards too soon. Even if she felt the same way, that might have been a little unnerving. If you want to pursue her, don't put too much pressure on her right now. You could assume a big brother sort of role in which you can tease her, be playful, be her confidante, and build a generally closer friendship. Bide your time and wait for the right moment.
-yk
2007-03-26 03:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yaakov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is planning to get back with her ex, you would not want to do anything to break up what they are trying to put back together and you really have not known her all that long like three days. It could be something about her that really gets you and you want to find out more about it if you can. Being drunk has nothing to do with whether or not you think about her, but the fact is that she has expressed that she does not want to be with you and for the simple reason that she wants to work things out with her ex.
2007-03-26 03:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the correlation between having a hangover and thinking of this girl interesting. Maybe if you spent more time sober...?
2007-03-26 03:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rusting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want her out of ur mind you can easily get her out but obviously ur interested in her , i say no , just back of and don't think about her , have fun with ur friends and enjoy ur classes , love is not the best choice especially in college
2007-03-26 03:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Donets'k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how sweet the kid has a crush.
okay check this out. you found somebody that has every single attribute you look for in a girl and your body responded to it. you wanna get her out of your head? smoke some weed you'll forget about half the sh!t that happened on the vacation but she won't be in your head anymore.
-pz-
2007-03-26 03:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u fall in love in her...^^, but if u're not even sure yet, try to keep a distance with her, if u miss her...then Congratulation , u're officially Fall In Love ^^...
2007-03-26 03:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Raine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just like her alot. dont think its a bad things and just cuz there are other pretty girls to think about doesnt mean u shouldnt think about this one. at least you got the courage to talk to her. cuz i like this guy i go to school with and i mean hes not the only hott guy in school i just like him more. i just wish hed come talk to me but he doesnt. teenage boys r so f****** stupid.
2007-03-26 03:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back with her ex? She might be....or...changed her mind about you.
They all look prettier through rose colored glasses.
2007-03-26 03:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't read it, But I have the same problem at the moment too!
2007-03-26 03:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋