So i met this guy on a dating website and both of us assumed that it was going to be a one nite stand but then we got talking and it took a whole new meaning where we started spending a lot of time together. We also started having a physical relationship soon after. Once i got a job i decided to move out of my mums place and he kept encouraging me and said that would give us more time together. once i moved into this place we started spending less and less time together. and slowly it has deteriorated. we just went on a vacation recently where the vacation was just perfect. I have told him quite a few times that i really like him and i love him and he has just ignored me when i said that or he has said you know i dont want a relationship as i have been with 2 demanding women and i dont want to have another relationship.
i really like him and would like to take it to the next level and he doesnt wanna and i wanna know what to do about it.
2007-03-26 03:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by leogal_3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't expect him to change. If he doesn't want a relationship, you shouldn't expect him to suddenly decide that he does. He may only want the physical aspect of your relationship (as well as many other women). Be careful. If you just want a physical relationship, then be safe. If you want more, look elsewhere as he sounds like a player.
2007-03-26 03:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, this sounds pretty confusing. He sounds like the type of guy who just wants the physical aspect of a relationship, and not the emotional.
My advice to you would be to let him go, give yourself some time to get over it, and get back out there and find someone who can treat you the way you deserve. He's only going to break your heart (sounds like he is already).
Good luck!
2007-03-26 03:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kavasa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, meeting someone on a dating website has its positive and negative sides... first you dont even know where hhe came from in the first place and how many or what happened to his/her previous relationships... before you let your feeling go deeper or before you fall... you really have to talk to him and if he told you that he is not yet ready for some commitments or if he doesnt want to involve himself to a relationship... well, better get him out of the picture... you know why?! you're not sure if you're the only one whom he's dating with or having sex with.. right?!
better look for someone who will take everything seriously...
2007-03-26 04:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie_sprinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been with demanding women before, he'll see you as another one of those demanding women, if you try to push the relationship. Give it time.
2007-03-26 03:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by joe b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER GIVE UR HEART the chance to dominate ur life and later regret about .
never obey ur HEART may be it is broken and destroy ur future
2007-03-26 03:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by blau_fau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you should leave him they ant no reason for you staying.he dont love you
fine some thats go love you back
2007-03-26 03:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya really like him, stick with it, time will make him realize what he has.
2007-03-26 03:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't mind shagging you, but anything more is out? Dump the user.
2007-03-26 03:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋