my boyfriend and i had a talk about him not calling me and blowing me off to do things with his buddies. well a week later he does it again. I had something planned for us friday which got cancled and then i set it up for sunday and i told him that. well sat he was out with his buddies and i called him and told him to call me back which he never did> and i was going to remind him that sun was the day. but he never called back any way. so it is sunday and i call him right, he is out of town with his buddy, doing guy stuff. wheni called him and he told me i started to get upset and he could tell but did not be too concerned . so i was like c all me later. and he did after he got home and played pool with his buddies. i mean am i just crazy or was that wrong. and i told him and he was like sorry i forgot.
2007-03-26 02:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Niki D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is an immature, inconsiderate jerk and is just using you when it is convenient for him. He has nothing to lose as long as you keep letting this kind of behavior go.
2007-03-26 02:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you need to drop him like he's doing you. there is no way
in hell that a man can be that busy with his buddies and not even think to contact the girl he's supossed to love for a qiuck
( hey boo, I miss you and I'm just thinking about you ) kinda of call.You really need to start getting busy yourself. It don't even matter if you are only sitting home watching t.v. , when he call you. Tell him ( hey boo, I'm really into this show right now , I'll call you when it goes off) and never call him back that day, When he calls the next day to find out why you ain't call him back tell him ( oh, I'm sorry, I forgot. I got caught up doing something else). Make him feel the way that he made you feel.
2007-03-26 02:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mahogany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be childish first of all investigate what has restrained him from meeting you, if it is just a go go gathering of boozing & enjoying of the boys community you can pardon him and say please do not repeat. If you suspect something like gay then say good bye to him if it is neither and is only a business trip then just ignore it that all finally when you meet and discuss with him get his committment that both of you would live together inspite of both known and unknown problems thats all everything is ok. All the best.
2007-03-26 02:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be feeling that you are monoplizing all of his time. I'm sure his friends have been giving him heat for it too.
Give him a little space. Allow him to go out with his friends. It's best you don't talk to your boyfriend while he's with his friends. He either won't take your call because he doesn't want to deal with drama or he won't be himself and be rude to you putting on a front around his friends.
My advice to you is to spend more time with your friends so you each can give eachother a little space.
2007-03-26 05:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't see this as a big deal, when obviously it is to you. If you can't live with this behaviour then dump him. There is a difference between just forgetting about a date and trying to be better about it and just plain ignoring you. Which is what he's doing.
2007-03-26 02:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its seems like he doesn't respect you or the relationship....if you keep talking and talking to him about it and he still treat you like crap turn the tables and do the same to him. if he comes around and start acting like your boyfriend then keep him, if he doesn't then you know hes not the one for you and move on.
2007-03-26 02:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a man who cares about you.
2007-03-26 02:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him talk to him [again] but if he isnt THAT special to you then just break-up with him! he obviously doesnt care!
2007-03-26 02:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Marisa♥Cody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow him off permanently.
2007-03-26 02:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋