I am now convinced my mother is the one with issues than myself. She has often told me that I am fat,ugly,monstrous, the worlds ugliest child/person on earth,that ill never get a guy,that i can never do anything properly,I am not clever enough than other people/family/sisters or cousins, that a guy on the side of the street is more cleverer & everything else than I am.
The next day she will come been all nice to me & asking me who i got as guy friends,who i'm dating,who i life.
Everything is my fault. Am i really wrong???? I have contemplated suicide,running away,i do generally keep to myself. The reason i am still living or around is because of my dad & my bf. Right now i even think i should give up on my bf to. Although he is really supportive.
2007-03-26 02:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not your fault. It's no ones fault. They're just words. I advise that you do not listen to anyone who tells you that you can't do anything, because surely you CAN! You got so used to your mother shaming you that it has an affect on how you feel about yourself. Darling please don't hurt yourself over it. Live life for yourself, live it and education yourself. It's a great form or personal enrichment.
2007-03-26 03:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds bipolar to me. I usually say that kinda stuff to myself.......x.x
No, you aren't wrong, unless of course you are the things she says you are which almost impossible.
She's the one with the problem. Have you talked to your dad about this? Or would it make any difference?
Either she can be put on some medication or something or you'll just have to endure it until you can move out, but it won't last forever so hold on.
2007-03-26 02:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to uncover any one that may maintain her. I comprehend it's steeply-priced however you must reside your lifestyles. That's simply now not reasonable. If you begin caring for her and spending all of your time caring for her then you are going to in no way be married or have youngsters of your possess. This could sound a tad egocentric, however that is now not reasonable to you. I recognize on account that my peers mother was once identical to this. She has spend her entire lifestyles caring for her mother. My deficient pal is forty anything and he or she has grow to be so depressed and he or she's obtain such a lot weight and her hair has even fall out. Her dream of fitting a spouse and having youngsters went out the door. She cries herself to sleep each and every night time. I went to seek advice from her the opposite day and he or she tells me how so much she recents her mother and the way her mother took her lifestyles clear of her. It's a lovely unhappy tale. Please reside you lifestyles. I am now not pronouncing that you simply can not maintain your mother, however you have got to reside too. Try and spot how you'll get support for her. I am sorry for each you and your mother. :( btw I desire you do not need youngsters so they are able to maintain you while you're historical, I desire you've got them to elevate them and allow them to reside their lives. Some humans are egocentric. My husband and me had been paying per month residence care. Which is while him and I get historical we now have nurses caring for us so out unusual youngsters can reside with much less strain and their lovely household. We began buying this the day we had youngsters. My moms and dads did it. I constantly spent plenty of time with my moms and dads, however I was once relieved to understand that advert authorities and strong humans caring for them while my siblings and I weren't in a position to.
2016-09-05 16:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by brandl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be Stupid Mehnaz
If you have 100 reasons to give up, I can give you 1000 reasons to live.
Life is not a thing to dump in , its a gift of god. Cherish every moment of it.
I am there with you always. Dont be low by some bad moments, they will go away soon.
Enjoy life
2007-03-26 18:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it might be hard to talk to your mom about these issues but it is necessary. when i was a teenager i had alot of issues with my mom. i just wanted to run away. i wrote my mom a letter. spelling out the things she did that upset me and how they affected me. at first she wasnt receptive but then more more idistanced myself. i got a job and worked alot so i was barely home. try giving each other space. let her hear/read what you have to say. it might take somet for chnage but at least you have said your peace. a little space will make you two appreciate each other more.
2007-03-26 02:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell your mom about all this issues and tell her that you even thought about commiting sucide i don't think you should abandon your boyfriend since he is supportive. i wish you luck
2007-03-26 03:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋