Why is it so hard to find somebody that won't just use you?

Answer 1

learn to judge their character but you'll never know who will and who won't use you, you'll be suprised there's a lot of good actors out there. i suppose try to find someone genuine or if you keep getting used by the same kind of guys maybe consider some other guys to go out with u may find one you really like that just doesn't want to use you for sex or to borrow money off. good luck

Answer 2

we all get used at some point you just have to figure out the signs when you think it start...