Girls, how do I?

Question

K i'm in a bar, i'm a 25 year old, good looking guy, I have cool hair(long in front and short and spikey in the back.) I have my whole left arm covered in tattoo's and half of my right arm. My lip and Ears are pierced. Im not fat at all and I've been told i look like a rockstar haha. anyways, im in a bar, your in a bar, How do I approch you? say you've been makin eyes at me all night and i have been back. were not drunk though. we've only had a few drinks. I just don't know what it all means. I haven't been on the single circut for about 10 years lol. Just wondering if you girls could give me a few pointer's on how to meet new girls. I've tried myspace, isn't really working that well. although its how i met my ex fiance.

Answer 1

be honest...just be yourself, not a jerk. hopefully, that's obvious. if your at a bar, why don't you just order her a drink or something. try to find something you both have in common.

if a girl is looking at you- not in a bitchy annoying way. i say go for it. you don't know until you try.

don't go looking for girlfriends on myspace or youtube, facebook...that whole spiel...it sounds so desperate. go to a single night event or just a bar...whatever. you'll find someone.

have fun.

Answer 2

Try the no pressure approach.

I never get weirded out by guys who are just themselves, like:

1. Are you having a good time?
2. Next round on me. (This makes it so it sounds less invasive.)
3. Wanna dance?
4. So, do you myspace? ( ha ha sorry just had to throw that in.)
5. Do you have any tattoos?


Basically, just sound confident without being creepy.

Personally, I'm surprised that your tattoos and piercings haven't been much of ice breakers for you.

I highly doubt that you will meet a quality girl at the bar, but it looks like you just want to meet any girl.

Answer 3

Well no matter how you look or how your personality is, I've always like a guy to come over and be very polite and a gentlemen. Say hello, hi or what's up how you doing? Introduce yourself, my name is (insert name here) and ask her what her name is. Ask her what is she drinking and could you buy her next one, if she has one, if not ask her would she like one. Depending on the response you act accordingly from there. If she dances and you dance, ask her to dance. Start up a conversation with her and compliment her on something like hair, clothing shoes, eyes, lips or whatever. The continue with something like are you from around here or something like that. Who is she here with, and a couple of sentences into the conversation ask her does she have a bf and if she says no ask could you have her number and tell her you would love to take her out sometime and get to know her better. You should be able to handle it from there.

Answer 4

If you really think that you've been making strong eye contact with a lady across the room, just walk on over and tell her that she has nice eyes. I'm not a huge fan of the bar-pickup-line thing, but you have to start somewhere.

Answer 5

You are 25 so I guess looks is all that matters. Anyway, depends what type of girls you're looking for. I find the punk/rockstar look very attractive on a man in a formal suit.

Answer 6

Firstly I didn't make eyes at you, you drunkin' son of the.... just kidding. If you really want to know, theres a book called The secret. It tells you how to think positive. If all you're thinking now is "I can't , then you cant" It is called the law of attraction. If you think negative, it attracts negativity. Start thinking like "I am handsome, girls like me all the time", etc etc. Relax and be positive. It won't be long girls will be flocking around you. Hey I don't need to say good luck 'cause you don't need it.

Answer 7

If she has been making eyes at you then she's interested. Go over and say hello...introduce yourself and ask if you can sit. Be yourself, don't listen to these idiots about going for a make over. The biggest mistake people make is portraying them self as something they aren't.
Ask her about herself and tell her about you. However from my experience a bar is not a great place to meet someone for a relationship.

Answer 8

I'm a very random person, so for me it wouldn't really matter. B/c my boyfriend that i have now...2 months ago we were talking about skateboarding & all of a sudden he asked me out...it was VERY random, but it was sweet & i loved it & u sound hot!!!

Answer 9

1st IMPRESSION counts. go 4 a makeover. meet a new gals..not in a bar. there are better places out there.

Answer 10

well girls like guys who have a mysterious look to them,don't be weird just act cool, and be funny i like a guy who can make me laugh