i miss him and he has this ego that doesnt let him call me, its been a week n 3 days, he was asking about me at first but then i found out from my friend that he stopped asking about me, i miss him, but i refuse to go back to him like i always do eventhough it wasnt my fault, i sincerely, feel like i love him, but that he doesnt love me, and he told me that he wasnt in love with me, he just said how he loved me though...whatever...its been a year and some change and ive done everything for this guy, now it seems like he just doesnt care anymore..he made me cry alot, and he's kinda of a liar, i know and people have told me i deserve better, but what can i do to forget about him, im probably making my friends tired of them listening to me talk and talk about the subject, and i try surrounding myself with loved ones, i dont know, i need something or someone to help me please....i need some type of help, i care so much about him that it hurts..i miss him, but i refuse to go back to him..
2007-03-26 02:04:08 · 4 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres nothing you can do to forget about him. If you love someone turely you can't just forget about him. There are probablt things you saw and still see in him that no one else can. He might have done some things but when you love someone you would do anything in the wolrd for them and though you love him you see that you can't go back to him but you still want him to be happy and that's all you can do
2007-03-26 02:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I always say honey..."when the first moments of doubt arrive in a relationship disagreement?...communication between the two parties is gonna be essential." If you two lovebirds ain't talking?...well then nothing is ever gonna get solved babe. It's just a fact of life really. Actions do speak louder then words sometimes too hun...and his actions speak very loudly for himself. Take a time out and gather your wits about you sweetie. You can't force love and affection on anyone. They have to wanna receive your love babe...and when they don't want it for themselves really?...well then it's absolutely time to move on realistically. I know that it hurts when love don't come back to ya babe. That's always how it has felt...and that's also how it's always gonna feel too. Get used to it....stay busy with yourself....gather your own forces...and move on up the road babe. Standing still and stewing about it will leave you standing stuck! Nobody likes being stuck babe....not even your ex. Work hard...stay busy with friends family and supportive individuals accordingly. Dump all negative influences in your life otherwise. They leave you feeling pretty darned empty if you don't. Good luck sweetie!!!
2007-03-26 09:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cared he would come to u. or maybe u should have went to him when he asked for u. now its probably to late. its over beyond repair now. its going to hurt alot. my advice for now is stay away look in a new direction. dont go looking for a new bf or anything but keep ur options open. only time will heal this pain be patient. it takes time probably alot of time. sux but its true.
2007-03-26 09:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by kaylia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
forget em, sounds like u can use some fresh new batteries
2007-03-26 09:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋