My ex boyfriend is in love with another woman who has no interest in him. I'm friends with both of them. I've been through so much for him. I think someday we may be back together. In the mean time he needs me to take care of him to an extent. I love him more than you can imagine and am miserable when I'm not with him. If I bail and cut off sex will that test him? or should I keep hanging around?
2007-03-26 01:57:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mark J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bail! I'm sorry, I know it's easier said than done but you have to stop caring for him so much, it'll only perpetuate him relying on you and you'll end up disappointed with him not reciprocating. He is too comfortable calling on you. You will gain self-respect and his respect if you stop giving him so much. Even though he may be annoyed at first, it's better fro you both in the long run.
2007-03-26 02:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you keep sleeping with him? He is dating other women, with whom you can be sure he is having sex, and there is no reason for him to get back together with you if you keep having sex with him. To what extent are you "taking care of" him? Find a MAN who loves himself and doesn't need to be "fixed", and get away from this BOY who is using you!
2007-03-26 09:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. There is nothing for you to gain by being the mistress to someone you love. It will only ever hurt you, and you get nothing in return for your loyalty and feelings.
Find someone who will love you like you love them, and your ex will be nothing more than a distant memory.
2007-03-26 09:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this... How can he be in love w/ her & have sex w/ you.... Love knows no measures. Take him in friendships last forever when they r real... He doesn;t really love her if he wants sex w/ you. You obviously r not her friend if you r having sex w/ him . What r you to him ... ask yourself that too while you r at it!!! You both need to figure that out!
2007-03-26 09:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex with this guy and you are telling me that he loves another person? Leave the man alone.
2007-03-26 09:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How low is your self-esteem? You're giving him everything on a platter and with no strings attached - and then you wonder why you get treated like a doormat.
2007-03-26 09:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. Get on with your life. IF, that is a big IF, you are meant to be then he will come back to you.
2007-03-26 09:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you
2007-03-26 09:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by dƒ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋