Is there something wrong with me........?

Question

I am upset.ok it might sound bad but i still keep in touch with my ex.ALOT.Well my "boyfriend"made me mad yesterday cause he had the nerve o not say anything to me but called me at 12 in the morning.The manager cused him out cause she didnt like how he was saying dirty things about me when im not there and the other guys do it to.A girl that work there told me that he wasnt saying it that when the guys found out that he liked me they started asking how long will he wait to get my draws.But thats not the half of it my ex wants to get back with me so much and even though he in baltimore and im in philly he treats me more like a girlfriend than my "boyfriend"does.I need help again.Please.

Answer 1

No, there's nothing wrong with you. It sounds like the guy you are with is very immature ... to say the least. I suggest that you shouldn't be with a man that doesn't treat like a girlfriend -- theres no point in having a relationship if he doesn' acknowledge it.

As far as your ex goes, I wouldn't try to have a relationship with a man thats in another distant location. It just makes things too difficult emotionally and mentally. Plus, the guy in Baltimore is your ex for a reason, so don't open new wounds.

Try staying single for a while and figure out what you want out of your life before getting involved in another relationship.

Hope that helps.

Answer 2

Your boyfriend shouldn't be saying bad things about you to anyone. If anything it is his responsibility to defend you when other people say bad things about you. He is wrong in that respect, though he does have a good reason to be mad. What if the show were on the other foot. What if he had an ex girlfriend that he always talked to? What if he gave her a lot of his attention? How would you react? You ex is your ex. This means that you are no longer together. If you want him to respect you then you need to respect your current boyfriend and stop spending so much time with your ex. That would make anyone uneasy.