if you and bf got in a fight and didn't talk over the weekend at all right,would you wait for them at school? because if i wait it might seem that well, you know. would you just go about your day?
2007-03-26 01:49:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
focus on school! when he realizes that you aren't interested in him (or thinks that anyway :) ), he will come around! He will see that you can live without him and it'll eat him up inside.
2007-03-26 01:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fights happen in a relationship. They are inevitable. You two cooled down over the weekend. When you go back to school just talk to him and see if anything can be worked out. He may just be waiting for you to call. You may as well talk to him first. It often pays to take the initiative.
2007-03-26 01:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if neither of you talked over the weekend, it is obvious that both of you are upset at the other, and although I would never suggest that you back down (especially if you have reason to be annoyed), I do think that you should speak to him so you can resolve the situation. Otherwise you are both in danger of building up resentment towards each other. I think you should as him to meet you, not to give him an apology or anything (unless that is warrented), but to talk over the situation.
I mean, it is all very well to want him to come running on bended knees wailing that he can't live without you and he is so very sorry, but unlikely to happen. ANd don't you massage his ego by doing that for him either.
2007-03-26 01:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you didn't talk to him at all during the weekend I would go on about your day for a couple of hours but find him during lunch or something so that you can talk about what happened. If you keep ignoring him your going to hurt each other even more and worse case, you might split up.
2007-03-26 01:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by mommy_05_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"would you wait for them at school? because if i wait it might seem that well, you know" do you mean "you know" by desperate?
well... in a relationship, there are ups and downs... and this is one of them... they say having fights between couples make a relationship healthy... that's somewhat true coz both of you will talk over the problems and fights that you have and will work it out... This is a pracitce for the both of you to understand each other more...
in this matter.. one of you should apologize of course.. doesn't matter who goes first as long as both of you talk about it... TIP: choose your word while talking to him so that there wont be any mis understandings... :D
Just talk and it will all waork out :)
2007-03-26 02:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Yani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might ignore you if you just waited till school- plus then his guy friends will be giving him suggestions and feeding his ego, so he might break up with you. do something super nice for him like give him a card or something. maybe just call him (not too soon, cuz u might seem desperate) and apoligize and talk things out, even if you werent the one at fault
2007-03-26 01:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait for him because it will give u guys a chance to talk if he just keeps walking by you grab him and tell him u need to talk and if he doesn't listen then forget him but a good bf should be willing to talk it over with u and solve the problem.
2007-03-26 01:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by kaymae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u did'nt talk to him all weekend, WHY do u want to talk to him now. Let him make the first move, unless u started the fight.
2007-03-26 01:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by want to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the fight was over or for ...but if u dont wait it might make it worsethen what it already seems/is
2007-03-26 02:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by 18 weeks pregnant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry about school, your "friends" will come and go, but it sounds like you need that education
2007-03-26 01:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by katherinet0805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋