I have been with my boyfriend for over a month now and i know he had a hard time getting over his ex. But last night he went all quiet and strated crying, i didnt understand why. When i asked him what was wrong he just said he didnt know. It makes me really upset because i feel that he is still in love with his ex and he is hiding it from me. Does he still love her?
2007-03-26 01:47:14 · 25 answers · asked by Juliet Mandy. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO your bf doenst love his x he loves u!!!! if he still had feelings 4 his x he wodnt b with u!!! i think u should ask ur bf y he split up with his x it could help u to figure out if he loves her still.
2007-03-26 01:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. I am sure he still has feelings as the break up is new. That dose not mean he wants to break up with you. I would give him a little space, the more you crowed him the more he will push you away. Also you really don't know what he was upset about. I know your not a mind reader and might be jumping ahead of yourself. Give the guy a little space and see how things go.
2007-03-26 08:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...it's possible hun that he does have some on going conflicted feelings about his most recent escapades with his ex girlfriend...but it's probably more likely he is still grieving and feeling anxiety riddled conflicted ideas about his recent past and breakup with her assuredly. This is why I suggest people take a break between relationships to heal honey...cause he's still got his old baggage being carried around within himself mentally. I'm not saying you aren't good enough for this guy sweetie...but his mind is still muddled with some undisposed conflicted emotions too. He needs some time to pull his mental house together hun...some give him some space...and be gentle with his heart right now. Time is really gonna be his only real friend right now...so be patient and let him get through this stuff in his own manner. Need I say more?
2007-03-26 09:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusions....but you do need to have a proper sensible chat with him..
After all...if you can't be open with each other at this stage of the relationship then I would suggest that is not worth investing any further time in to it. He needs to be able to tell you things, confide in you, and you need to trust each other. Odd behaviour, which is what it was without having a proper explanation, is not going to help the two of you grow together.
If the worst comes to the worst, and it is pining for his Ex that is the problem...then by talking about it at least you will understand and can make your own mind up whether it is time to call it a day or not....
2007-03-26 09:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest a month is not very a long time to be with someone. You didnt say how low they were together but im guessing he does still love her.
But that doesnt mean he doesnt want to be with you it just means it can take longer than a month to get over somebody you loved.
Just give him some time and im sure he will be fine
2007-03-26 08:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would tell him to go away until he gets himself sorted. Yes he is probably still getting over his ex. You have only known him a short while, but dont just feel pity for him other wise he will only give you heartache. You should not be a shoulder to cry on and then find they are back to-gether. That`s not fair.
2007-03-26 09:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by JoJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he did not give himself time to heal from that relationship before he jumped right into another one. How long did he date this other girl? Your only a month into this relationship and of course he is not going to tell you that he misses the other girl, I say give him some space and just start doing your own thing, and see what happens between the two of you before you invest anymore feelings into this relationship and end up getting hurt yourself
2007-03-26 08:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is hiding something it may be something different, as you have been with him over a month it would not be too good for him to be crying over his ex in front of you, you really need to try and get him to open up to you and let you know what is wrong, otherwise there is no point in your relationship.
2007-03-26 08:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe he has some physical pain that he is not sharing with you. Maybe you have bad breath and it is making his eyes water. You have to explore all the possible answers before you conclude that he is still in love with his ex.
2007-03-26 08:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he is, give him time, things will sort themselves out, maybe you should take a back seat for a while, let him get in touch with you, as that way it,s him that wants you
2007-03-26 09:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is every possibility he does.You've only been together a month so i take it his break up wasnt long ago?..Maybe he rushed into another relationship too soon.
2007-03-26 08:50:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋