Me and my girlfrend just broke up. i miss her so much but she say she just dose not wont to be with me no more. but it came stait out the blue the night before she was in dundee with her frends and sent me a txt to say she was there safe and loved me. but the next day a went to meet her at th bus station an she told me on th way home she wonted to finish it that she wiz not in love with me no more. we have split before and got back. how do i get her back. she wont talk to me when a try to phone. i love her how do i get her to love me again. a no i mean something to her an shes worth fighting for. we had just went in to pay off th rest of our holliday 2 days before so there wiz no intent to finish it then so why? were do i go from here. dose she still love me will she again can i get her back? from Gary
2007-03-26 01:40:44 · 14 answers · asked by gthknox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-26 01:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by ben 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does sound like she met some one in dundee and either she wants to be with that person,
feels guilty cos she did something with them (believes that she cant love you as much as she thought she did),
she enjoyed being single so much she wants more of it.
In any of the cases above would you really ever want to be with a person like that its obvious she can't be in love with you. I know its hard but why would you want her back you would always wonder what happened and what shes been upto in the time you've been split up. Some people stay in relationships just to be in one. She made the decision to walk away you didn't you did all you wanted you won't have to live with regret she will.
2007-03-26 08:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by dora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, a similar thing just happened to me. Booked our holiday, called me Friday night to say he loved me, Saturday morning we were over. Although I know,because I feel like your heart is literally breaking inside of you and , it feels like you can't get over it right now or ever will, do you really in your heart want to be with someone who can change their mind so quickly and so easily? Its not fair on you. You should go out, have a few drinks, and have fun with your friends. DEF don't keep doing what Ive done and keep ringing, perhaps if you don't ring, she may realise she still loves you. I really wish you the best of luck, I hope you either get back together and she learns to appreciate you, or you move on and find someone you want to be with forever. Sometimes advice from someone in a similar situation, but doesn't listen to her own advice is the best!! really good luck. xxxx
2007-03-26 10:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she may have been up to no good an now feel svery guilty about it so she is pushing you away.
just give her space, and try to find out what happens with the holiday etc.... she may just need some time. but you have to wonder to yourself if you will want her back if she has cheated,
or even if she didnt she may have just got a taste for freedom and now wants to be on her own for a while
2007-03-26 08:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her how much u love her.probably her friends av said something 2 her.try sending her a single/dozen roses,some girls love being loved they want 2 be the numba 1 in a girls life.ull have 2 prove 2 her that ur passionate about her.she probably does love u bt she's afraid that shes goin 2 hurt u she cld be scared of being committed 2 u.many girls are afraid of committment,ull have to be soft with her.prove to her that u love her.IT WILL ALL COME CLEAR SOON!
2007-03-26 08:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by xxashtonxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Gary.
I'm very sorry for your troubles but it sounds like she met someone else in Dundee. She might change her mind and come back to you but don't chase her as you'll drive her even further away.
Hope you feel better soon.
Blessed be.
2007-03-26 08:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by sallybowles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's over. She may have even cheated if she changed her mind that quickly so I'd just move on.
2007-03-26 09:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ju C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse dear! definately...all the gals r the same..they pretand the same always...but don't stop ur efforts to get her bcoz sometimes they wanna check ur loyalty n careness towords them.
keep on trying...
u'll get her..
best of luck
2007-03-26 08:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by tanish20003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she was ever yours she will come back to you, you cant force some one to love you and if you rely love her you need to respect her decision.
2007-03-26 08:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by ao23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt let her mess you about like that! seriously i know its not what you to hear but u sud move on and get someone who you don't have to fight for all the time- real love shouldnt have to be like that!
2007-03-26 08:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by dollymixture 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't. If it ended twice, you should let that one go.
2007-03-26 08:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋